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People saying telling the wife was pure revenge are being bias'd here imo.

The way I see it as a general life rule I try my best to treat others as I'd like them to treat me. So put yourself in that wife's shoes.

If your partner was cheating on you and you didn't know would you want to be told? For me the answer is HELL YES. You guys can honestly say that if the mother of your children was running around hopping on various assorted shafts behind your back, you would rather remain ignorant of the truth and be kept in the dark? She's comin home from "yoga" some night and you're in the mood, but unknowingly are getting the aftermath of those various assorted shafts? And you would rather be kept in the dark??? That just seems nuts to me.

Personally I'd have said something like "either you can deliver the truth to her, and I'll give you a week to do so or I will tell her directly." That way things like the kids can be taken into consideration, he could've delivered the message as lightly as possible etc. It would definitely be shatty for the wife to pick up the phone one day and hear "hey I've been doin your hubby for a year" and she definitely doesn't deserve anymore shattyness in her life.

Old Post Mar-17-2011 16:23  Canada
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srussell0018
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quote:
Originally posted by mdm8
Fun fact: She wasn't the one who told his wife. You have no idea the circumstances or the situation here and thus have no business commenting on it. gtfo


Fun fact: You're the one who started all this shit when you had no business doing so in the first place. Get a life you fucking queen.


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FunkyCrew
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quote:
Originally posted by mdm8
Fun fact: She wasn't the one who told his wife. You have no idea the circumstances or the situation here and thus have no business commenting on it. gtfo


and you do?


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Wonder if he'll just repond to all of this like he usually does with some stupid picture?


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quote:
Originally posted by mdm8
Fun fact: She wasn't the one who told his wife. You have no idea the circumstances or the situation here and thus have no business commenting on it. gtfo


lol even better: people completely irrelevant to the situation are taking it upon themselves to play moral police.

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Registered: Mar 2005
Location: Milton, ON Canada

quote:
Originally posted by GGM
People saying telling the wife was pure revenge are being bias'd here imo.

The way I see it as a general life rule I try my best to treat others as I'd like them to treat me. So put yourself in that wife's shoes.

If your partner was cheating on you and you didn't know would you want to be told? For me the answer is HELL YES. You guys can honestly say that if the mother of your children was running around hopping on various assorted shafts behind your back, you would rather remain ignorant of the truth and be kept in the dark? She's comin home from "yoga" some night and you're in the mood, but unknowingly are getting the aftermath of those various assorted shafts? And you would rather be kept in the dark??? That just seems nuts to me.

Personally I'd have said something like "either you can deliver the truth to her, and I'll give you a week to do so or I will tell her directly." That way things like the kids can be taken into consideration, he could've delivered the message as lightly as possible etc. It would definitely be shatty for the wife to pick up the phone one day and hear "hey I've been doin your hubby for a year" and she definitely doesn't deserve anymore shattyness in her life.


If I'm happy, the kids are happy and the wife is happy then no I wouldn't want to know.


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If I'm happy, the kids are happy and the wife is happy then no I wouldn't want to know.


So a dishonest wife makes you a happy man? (and you wouldn't want to be told of the dishonesty?)


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Not only that, she did it respectfully and didn't mention his name, only that weird creeper mdma8 or whatever did so lay off Lindsay.


She actually did post the name at first, then realized it was a bad idea and deleted it.


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So a dishonest wife makes you a happy man? (Regardless of weather or not you know it?)


whether :P


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quote:
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So a dishonest wife makes you a happy man? (Regardless of weather or not you know it?)


I actually worked with a guy who would cheat on his wife all the time and his wife knew about it but figured "he provides for myself and my children so I don't mind"

I found it weird but hey, at least he was open about being married and having kids to his co workers and friends...his family wasn't a complete blank.


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LKD
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quote:
Originally posted by srussell0018
She actually did post the name at first, then realized it was a bad idea and deleted it.


by virtue of all the posts and pictures up, it would've been a no-brainer for all that know them on here and it was inevitable for names to come out.


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Endlesswave
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Location: Thornhill (Ontario)

quote:
Originally posted by LKD
I actually worked with a guy who would cheat on his wife all the time and his wife knew about it but figured "he provides for myself and my children so I don't mind"

I found it weird but hey, at least he was open about being married and having kids to his co workers and friends...his family wasn't a complete blank.



Fair enough but that's not dishonesty, she knew about it. It probably opened things up for her to do as she wanted as well.


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