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Originally posted by Proximus god damn, i didnt take my chance today, but i saw from her face that she really wasn't on mood.. thursday she'll be back and by all gods thursday will be my day again!

Well be patient man.....don't press she too much .......first of all try to be her friend

Let su know for what is going to happen

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Originally posted by DJ RozzeR Love at first site. I dont really belive in love in first site as every week i see a fit ass bitch and i fall in love with her arse and cleavage, i hav a g/f and i love her , she has all the essentials a guy needs. Ive had a few dream girls in my life , where i have met for a few minutes then that was it, it feels good to have an 'invisible lover' unfortunatley girls feel different they forget about these moments but us lads always have em

well, we guys just have such a harder life than the girls. so many things we need to remember all the time

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Oops...mnany sorry to all you guys for the double post

Yeah, a good way to start is to be her friend , and start the flirting, I usually start out slow, nice guy you know, but theres some that go fast, some girls like the nice slow guy that has realr feelings, if you know what I mean.

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Originally posted by hypronix fukin' really bad! I got to the conclusion that love is not a real thing. it's just a lie we keep tellin' each other and ourselves. to feel loved, and to be able to love... Y? cuz there's only one love. and you can't say for real which is it. I have regrets 4 one or two of my ex, but..I'm hardly convinced U can know love.Many already have. God I hope it's only about experience, but..unfortunately.. I know many will say I say this cuz I haven't found true love. no! ask someone what he has ever loved (besides his family..) I'm sure 90% will tell they loved more than one girl (maybe the 90% ain't enough!)so there! U can't love at different intensity, or in a different way..love is energy, like all around us, and it's form, even though undefined, is unique 4 all of us. so when U say you've loved..think twice!

hehe.. little kid.
must I add I've grown up a lot since then... and found that which I thought lost...
I know this thread is old but it happened I got the update to it and said I'd post. I wrote sometimes in the beginning that I saw this chick on the plane coming from Amsterdam and got a little crush on her. the funny thing is, I went to this outdoor party soon after that and I saw this girl and we looked at eachother for 2 hours straight, smiling and all. well just when I wanted to make my moves I had to go and I've never seen her since... the funny thing is, I just found out 2 days ago she was the same chick, and I started laughing histerically thinking I was hitting on the same girltwice and I got the same outcome... well it wasn't my fault anyway but still... all to the best, cuz I had the chance to meet my actual girlfriend and it seems it's better yet I'll never know how it would've been (if mah girl leaves, maybe I'll find out, but this isn't a wish I want to come true...). this is life, enjoy!

hyp

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Originally posted by hypronix hehe.. little kid. must I add I've grown up a lot since then... and found that which I thought lost... I know this thread is old but it happened I got the update to it and said I'd post. I wrote sometimes in the beginning that I saw this chick on the plane coming from Amsterdam and got a little crush on her. the funny thing is, I went to this outdoor party soon after that and I saw this girl and we looked at eachother for 2 hours straight, smiling and all. well just when I wanted to make my moves I had to go and I've never seen her since... the funny thing is, I just found out 2 days ago she was the same chick, and I started laughing histerically thinking I was hitting on the same girltwice and I got the same outcome... well it wasn't my fault anyway but still... all to the best, cuz I had the chance to meet my actual girlfriend and it seems it's better yet I'll never know how it would've been (if mah girl leaves, maybe I'll find out, but this isn't a wish I want to come true...). this is life, enjoy! hyp

Man, thats pretty cool...running into the same chick twice...I wish I got that chance again.

There was this one girl that I saw on the bus once while coming back from work, she was checking me out...and I was checking her out (obviously). She reminded me a little bit of Tara Reid; long straight hair, nice eyes, small lips...very pretty face (and smokin' body!!)

Anyways, I didn't have the nerve to come up to her and say "Hi"...and well, my stop came, I got off...and have regreted it ever since...the sexiest girl I've ever seen, and I did nothing. I so hope I get another chance...but I'm not waiting for that day, heheh, cuz it'll probably never come anyways.

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Originally posted by Proximus Well, as some of you have shared your stories i thought i should share mine as well At my school, for this past year I have seen two extremely hot chicks, a blond girl and a dark red haired girl with blond stripes in her hair. Both are so beautiful, but I like the blond one a little more. This whole damn past year I've been going around thinking who the fuck they are and where the hell did they come from? They weren't there last year. Anyway, this thursday I was at a rock concert, the band playing was Muse (some of you might have heard oakenfolds remix of their track newborn) and yes I do like rock, but not as much as I love tech. So anyway, I see the blond girl, What a fucking coincidence, standing back in the crowd, alone and just listening and i was thinking, FUCK!!! I can't get a better opportunity, this is the best shit. But I have never walked up to girl, NEVER, so you can imagine i was sweating, my tummy hurt and i couldnt enjoy the music. After 2-3 songs, I went and stood next to her, she suddenly starts to fix her hair, shirt and all. Maybe she saw a guy or whatever, but nope, she still stood there with me by her side, and so I told her: great music huh? and she nodded.. i asked her if she went to my skool and yes she did, it was her alright and i introduced myself and i got her name. w00t!!! I didnt want to go any further than that, because I am gonna meet her in school, plus i want her to think about me, not like she got me or anything, but as a guy that is interested and I wanted her name. After we introduced, we listened to the last track and i told her, it was nice meeting you, she gave me one of the most beautiful smiles. Now in about 2 hours I'm about to wake up and go to school, and talk to her again, she reads a course with my friend so its no problem and LiquidX, i want to thank you for sharing your story, because you have given me more courage to talk to her again tomorrow and take my chance and try to get her. Because she is truly beautiful. And you guys that managed to read through this, cheers!

THAT'S MY STORY!!!! DAMN!! WORD BY WORD!!!!
Two girls - blonde and red. Both are gorgerous, both are hot. Both are sweeeet, but blonde is just KO. And the most suprising part is that they both, err, "checking me out"(???), like, you know...gauge shouting eyes and stuff (I know, girls like to play like that, but here it's completely different). But all the time they r together!!! I wanted to come up to blonde girl, but she'd be probably embarrased by the presence of her girl friend, and neglet me becouse the other girl would be jealous - why he chose her, not me ... duh ... maybe i'm thinking it all wrong, who knows ... but I don't have the right to let her go!!!
If stupidity is a sin, i'll be in hell...

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Originally posted by Cosmo THAT'S MY STORY!!!! DAMN!! WORD BY WORD!!!! Two girls - blonde and red. Both are gorgerous, both are hot. Both are sweeeet, but blonde is just KO. And the most suprising part is that they both, err, "checking me out"(???), like, you know...gauge shouting eyes and stuff (I know, girls like to play like that, but here it's completely different). But all the time they r together!!! I wanted to come up to blonde girl, but she'd be probably embarrased by the presence of her girl friend, and neglet me becouse the other girl would be jealous - why he chose her, not me ... duh ... maybe i'm thinking it all wrong, who knows ... but I don't have the right to let her go!!! If stupidity is a sin, i'll be in hell...

Haha, stupidity... naw man I see your dilemma. But all you have to do is talk to 'em. Go up to them, the both of them (so one doesn't feel left out ) and just introduce yourself, chat with em, become their friend, and eventually you'll see which wants you more, who you want more (it might change, one might be more compatible than the other, looks aren't everything ). Especially if you see these chicks often, the second meeting after will come clear to who you should chose, cause most likely (if they both want you), they'll talk it over amongst themselves and who knows? mayeb you'll even get some threesome action

Well good luck man, keep us posted...

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Originally posted by Boy trance Haha, stupidity... naw man I see your dilemma. But all you have to do is talk to 'em. Go up to them, the both of them (so one doesn't feel left out ) and just introduce yourself, chat with em, become their friend, and eventually you'll see which wants you more, who you want more (it might change, one might be more compatible than the other, looks aren't everything ). Especially if you see these chicks often, the second meeting after will come clear to who you should chose, cause most likely (if they both want you), they'll talk it over amongst themselves and who knows? mayeb you'll even get some threesome action Well good luck man, keep us posted...

why does everyone make it sound so easy to just 'walk up to people and start chatting'!?!?!?

I think that i probably one of the hardest things there is.. I am 100% and completely unable to do that at ALL!!!

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Originally posted by drizzt81 why does everyone make it sound so easy to just 'walk up to people and start chatting'!?!?!? I think that i probably one of the hardest things there is.. I am 100% and completely unable to do that at ALL!!!

Dude, honestly it's because you're thinking with your cock too much unfortunately. You have to pretend that the chick is just some other guy, and you have nothing to lose! Confidence = Attractive. Ever see a hot chick with an ugly ass guy? we all have. You know how that guy ended up with her? Because he had confidence. We can't explain why, but we're all attracted to confidence. And another thing is to not care so much! Don't take life too seriously, just relax, smoke a j to calm your nerves if needed, and if you get turned down? fuck who cares! there are plenty of chicks out there, and it wasn't meant to be anyhow! Everything turns out for the best... EVERYTHING!

There's absolutely no sense in just "walking up to the girl" and starting chatting, and it's virtually impossible, too. I mean, who's going to stop and talk to a stranger they've never seen before? Why would they want to?

As a "confidence-building" exercise it may be useful (e.g. walking up to the first cute girl you see in college and starting to "chat") but it's unlikely to produce any meaningful results, and you'll look ridiculous doing it, too (especially if she's not alone -- trust me).

What's much better is meeting girls *outside* of school/college, or through mutual friends.

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