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prolikewhoa
veteran attention whore
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Berlin
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| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
Alright, I have a problem. I am going through sex withdrawl right now, and I need to get some action. I am not the type to randomly fuck some random guy that I have just met, but I don't want to get into a relationship either.
What do I do? I already do the whole masturbation thing a lot, and it just ain't cuttin' it. Is there some type of idea that would be good? I can't go back to the ex. And, please, no offers to "help" me. LOL
Female TA's any suggestions?! |
hmm...my best advice is a friend w/ benefits. i've had these in the past and if it's just healthy sex you're looking for, a good guy friend is a nice way to go for several reasons...
1. you are attracted to eachother, but don't like eachother. this raises your self-esteem and confidence.
2. you both care about eachother, so the sex isn't meaningless, cheap, or emotionless, even though it is casual.
3. there are no pressures to feel like you need to impress him...he's your guy friend...no biggie.
the main concern in a fuck buddy is that things will be "weird" between the two of you after the fact. for the most part, when things are weird after sex, some emotions are being with-held. in stories from friends, personal experience, etc, when you hook up w/ a guy friend (sex, kissing, foreplay...whatever) and there is tension afterwards, it's usually because you like eachother, and aren't sure how to express it, since the WHOLE point of hookin up in the first place was to be casual. but this opens up a new door for both of you that wasn't there before. i've had a couple nice friends w/ benefits experiences and i would higly recommend it if you're just sexually frustrated.
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squirrelly
The Phun Nun
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: In the Shower
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No one is sticking anything up my ass. Ever. At any point and time. EVER. No matter HOW much I love you. No. Guys who like to stick it up their girlfriends ass, I'm afraid have homosexual tendencies. That is how gay men have sex. If you want to stick it up someone's ass go find a gay man. And guys that want to give it up the ass but hate gays, are not only hypocritical, but maybe they are denying their real urges.
About the losing virginity thing- I've decided it's too personal of an experience to share on a forum, even if I love you guys. Yes, it was magical, romantic, and everything I wanted it to be. That's all you need to know. 
Theresa- I'm in the same boat you are. I haven't had sex in nearly a year, and don't masterbate. (Guys don't try that "you're lying" bullshit. Every girl friend I have does not masterbate. Not every girl does it. Sorry) So there is no relief from the crazy horniness.
My solution? I usually end up talking to someone about how my hormones are driving me crazy and exchange sex stories ( ) and how I'd kill for a good lay. And chain smoke. It sucks but that's all I can do. I don't like one night stands because I'm terrified of STDs. I don't want to have a fuck-buddy relationship with my guy friends because I don't find them attractive (I'm very picky about my boys) and I sure as hell DO NOT want a relationship right now.
So yea, I'm pretty much sex-less, and I will continue to be for a long time (at least as far as I can see).  I miss sex. A lot To go from 8 times a day to zilch....
Btw, I hate pop ups.
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twisted
happy technomad
Registered: Apr 2004
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| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
No one is sticking anything up my ass. Ever. At any point and time. EVER. No matter HOW much I love you. No. Guys who like to stick it up their girlfriends ass, I'm afraid have homosexual tendencies. That is how gay men have sex. If you want to stick it up someone's ass go find a gay man. And guys that want to give it up the ass but hate gays, are not only hypocritical, but maybe they are denying their real urges.
About the losing virginity thing- I've decided it's too personal of an experience to share on a forum, even if I love you guys. Yes, it was magical, romantic, and everything I wanted it to be. That's all you need to know.
Theresa- I'm in the same boat you are. I haven't had sex in nearly a year, and don't masterbate. (Guys don't try that "you're lying" bullshit. Every girl friend I have does not masterbate. Not every girl does it. Sorry) So there is no relief from the crazy horniness.
My solution? I usually end up talking to someone about how my hormones are driving me crazy and exchange sex stories () and how I'd kill for a good lay. And chain smoke. It sucks but that's all I can do. I don't like one night stands because I'm terrified of STDs. I don't want to have a fuck-buddy relationship with my guy friends because I don't find them attractive (I'm very picky about my boys) and I sure as hell DO NOT want a relationship right now.
So yea, I'm pretty much sex-less, and I will continue to be for a long time (at least as far as I can see). I miss sex. A lot To go from 8 times a day to zilch....
Btw, I hate pop ups. |
hell if i was stuck in that situation...well, id have me pants down me hands, hehehe
but hell, i respect the not masturbating part of it. once you do find a boyfriend, or someone you want to be with, your definatly gunna have ONE HELL OF A TIME. 
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Aug-21-2004 10:30 
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Ibiza Dreams
Chroma
Registered: Jun 2001
Location: In yo mouf'
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| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
[font=comic sans ms]No one is sticking anything up my ass. Ever. At any point and time. EVER. No matter HOW much I love you. No. Guys who like to stick it up their girlfriends ass, I'm afraid have homosexual tendencies. That is how gay men have sex. If you want to stick it up someone's ass go find a gay man. And guys that want to give it up the ass but hate gays, are not only hypocritical, but maybe they are denying their real urges. |
Hey Avenue, let me disagree here, completely. That homosexual tendency is bullshit that's only brought into the minds of you and others by society, current social standards (set by society, esp. media), and what's considered right/wrong.
What makes a gay man gay? Is it because he truly and passionately enjoys anal sex? Most likely not. Does he have a fetish that while receiving a blowjob he enjoys feeling his partner's moustache? Probably not.
What makes a gay man gay, is that he is ATTRACTED to the same sex. He gets a stiffy when he sees a guy naked. The same sex has the ability to sexually arouse the gay man. It's that attraction that defines a homosexual. That's why I can comfortably say if a guy is good looking or not, without having a deep, dark, hidden, repressed emotion of sliding it in that guy's ass, or any other type of sexual urge. If you have that attraction, you're probably gay, but if not, you can come as close as you want to that line, without being gay.
A man that is afraid or embarassed of complimenting another man on his physical traits, is most likely a victim of a similar influence as yourself. That doesn't make you gay, nor does performing anal sex on your girlfriend. Humans are curious by nature with a defined ability to learn and retain information. That's just so we don't hear any shit of "Animals don't do anal, it's not natural," neither do they suck penises or lick clits (clitorises or clitori?) If you try anal, and you happen to like it (it's only another spot of arousal, just like the nipples, neck, lips) you will observe how it feels, and if you enjoy it, you'll perhaps try it again. No instinctual behavior whatsoever (opposite to animals), we're human, we can decide what feels good and what doesn't.
If you choose not to perform anal because you just simply do not like the feeling, hey join the club. But if it's because you've been influenced by society and let that shape your criteria for future experiences, you're just another blind follower, good luck.
Bottom line: If a male can perform anal sex with a female, then go to the gym, take a shower with other naked men, and not get a hard-on, that man is not gay nor does he have any homosexual tendencies. It's not too hard to comprehend, just common sense.
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Last edited by Ibiza Dreams on Aug-21-2004 at 12:47
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