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| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
hmm...my best advice is a friend w/ benefits. i've had these in the past and if it's just healthy sex you're looking for, a good guy friend is a nice way to go for several reasons...
1. you are attracted to eachother, but don't like eachother. this raises your self-esteem and confidence.
2. you both care about eachother, so the sex isn't meaningless, cheap, or emotionless, even though it is casual.
3. there are no pressures to feel like you need to impress him...he's your guy friend...no biggie.
the main concern in a fuck buddy is that things will be "weird" between the two of you after the fact. for the most part, when things are weird after sex, some emotions are being with-held. in stories from friends, personal experience, etc, when you hook up w/ a guy friend (sex, kissing, foreplay...whatever) and there is tension afterwards, it's usually because you like eachother, and aren't sure how to express it, since the WHOLE point of hookin up in the first place was to be casual. but this opens up a new door for both of you that wasn't there before. i've had a couple nice friends w/ benefits experiences and i would higly recommend it if you're just sexually frustrated.
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Like hearing my grandmother, talk to her dog that way -- "Ooo
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Bottom line is, if you don't have someone to do the deed with, go with the finger or a device. <- And I meant this in a nice way. 
) and how I'd kill for a good lay. 
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