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Originally posted by Magimaster Don't tell her to fuck off. If worse comes to worse, just ignore her.

i agree totally with your whole post...especially this part.

im so suprised actually reading your post, kinda gives me faith that there are guys out there that get it lol

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I mean it seems odd to ask people I've never met for advice on my life, but it sometimes makes sense.

as i'm sure you've figured out, a neutral opinion for the most part helps with any situation !


yah like others say ... do what's in your heart ... if you really don't think that anything could develop from being in a relationship with em, don't even bother trying. it's better for you AND them.

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There is absolutely nothing wrong with accentuating certain postive traits that you know a girl likes. As long as you aren't lying about it. Leading a girl on just gets you into trouble, just as it is wrong for girls to lead guys on.

Basically what I'm saying is that its very important to be aware of what intrests a girl. Talk about things that she is interested in and of course that you are too (hopefully). Hopefully she is willing to do the same. Meeting half way and accepting and learning about each others differences is key.

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Originally posted by Time2Burn There is absolutely nothing wrong with accentuating certain postive traits that you know a girl likes. As long as you aren't lying about it. Leading a girl on just gets you into trouble, just as it is wrong for girls to lead guys on.

^^^^^for some reason i couldve sworn u were talkin bout a recent issue concerning me

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FUCK, girls lead guys all the time. YOU SHOULD'NT FEEL BAD AT ALL LEADING THEM ON. Shit have fun with it. You've only got one life to live. Keep up the shananigans until you find someone you REALLY love.

If the roles were reversed they would play you like a deck of cards --that's just what girls like to do. So is it wrong for you to do it?


Go out and get laid... or at the very least some head.

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Originally posted by Tranc3 So for example, if one liked how I danced in the nude on Wednesday nights while singing to the moon and covering myself with tobasco sauce and holding a squirrel as I do it

Is this available on video?

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Originally posted by Time2Burn There is absolutely nothing wrong with accentuating certain postive traits that you know a girl likes. As long as you aren't lying about it. Leading a girl on just gets you into trouble, just as it is wrong for girls to lead guys on.

I'm not making something up - in my case it would be accentuating something that's already there. I dunno though, doing it still seems to be somewhat wrong on at least some level.

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Originally posted by Sugarbean it is wrong if they believe that your motives are to be with them. then thats bogus as hell...you kinda sound like someone whom i was once involved with. he tried to be everything to me that i never had...i found out it was all a sherade..i cant spell...and it really hurt...

Thanks, always good to get the perspective of the other side. I seem to be getting two basic categories here - the "fuck them over category," which is supported by what seems to be past experiences, and the "do something only if you connect" category, which seems to make more sense to me. I mean, when I really stop to think about it, were I in that position, I wouldn't want the same done to me, especially if I were to fall in love with the girl, only to find that she was just playing around.

why are you posting this if you don't like them?
obviously you don't want to be with them

as for leading them on, don't
you wouldn't like it if they did it to
just because some other girls do it doesn't make it right for you to do it
still not convinced? if you do it to these girls, in future if they are in a position to lead someone on, they will to get some sort of revenge, meaning some innocent guy gets fucked meaning he'll want revenge and so on

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