but look on the bright side, MAKE-UP SEX!!

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Originally posted by TranceGeek but look on the bright side, MAKE-UP SEX!!

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are you on any medication? there are many drugs (especially anti-depressants) that will inhibit sexual performance. Don't be ashamed to go and ask your doctor what the deal is.

this can happen during stressful times. and just so you know...if you do see a doctor for the depression and you do go on meds...the majority of depression meds will have a similar effect...you will be able to perform, i mean "get it up" but it will be next to impossible to o. if you dont go the doctors route....do like everyone else said..try to relax or re-distribute your time so things wont be as hectic...take some time for yourself and make that your number one priority...

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Well the beach went great guys and thanks for all the support... Yeah im just gonna chill for a few days....And im on no drugs whats soo ever and i rarely drink.... Anyway we plan for sushi in a few days sooo im looking forward to that and shes gonna stay over... So hopefully all goes well. This shit sucks guys i hope that none of you ever have this problem. It's the most horrid thing a man can go through in their lifetime. Specially when you want to be intimate with someone you realy care for.

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It happens, and can be for a number of reasons.. But whatever you do, don't stress out over it because that'll only make it worse. I dated a guy for 5 months that couldn't keep it up and let's just say that him beating himself up over it really didn't improve the situtation. I'd say don't even think about it. Are you lacking sleep? That is definitely a contributing factor in my experience.

Don't worry and it'll all be a distant memory in a few days

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Originally posted by fr0st Ok im 20years old i work 3 jobs restaurant, dog grooming, dj and i go to school....... I was with this girl the other night and well....i wasnt able to perform.....how fucked up is that......20 years old and cant have sex... Im depressed and i think im gonna see the doctor. On another note i was completely sober and i havent done any drugs in over year and the girl was sooooo hot.... I'm just wondering has anyone else had the problem or am i the only pathetic fool that has had this at such a young age... you guys cant understand how depressing this is...

try hash...umm dexedrine...if ure still no go, there's always viagra dude

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Originally posted by fr0st yeah normaly im hard 24hrs a day..... I never have ploblems but since lastnight i cant get hard i took off work/school today went to the beach relaxed came home watched some porn and no go...god fucking damnt and the worst part the girl thinks shes unatractive to me and its her fault.....god fucking damnt this is the worst 24hrs of my entire life....

OK first of all, relax, things are never as bad as they seem. Secondly, lay off the drugs... I recommend you don't try taking any sort of supplements or anything, and definitely NOT viagra!! This is because you do NOT have a physical problem!

I can tell you right now that it's just a psychological problem, coupled with stress. But more of a psy thing.

When we rush to get something, in that rush we might lose the potential to get it. It's physiologically true. Being SO excited about a woman can "shut down" your "plumbing."

The best thing to do is just to relax and not really think about it...

If you really have nothing that can help you change your focus, then I might recommend you go out for a run. Yeah it sounds stupid, but believe me if you go out on a nice, looooong run it can tear off a LOT of the stress in you. Try it out for yourself. BTW, when running, don't think about the girl and what happened, just be aware of what you're doing, i.e. running.<--this is the key point. It's quite good.

I hope you feel better soon.

how about caffeine?

may be some more testosterone to get those hormones flowing.

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Originally posted by Dmatrox how about caffeine? may be some more testosterone to get those hormones flowing.

BAD IDEA

will make your stress levels peak! not a good call...

well sushi will help.. since fishy stuff is like an aphrodisiac... and just relax man... sometimes it happens to the best of us.. no one in here has laughed.. so you can see this is a positive sign.. just remmber there are other things to relationships than sex... intimacy is the key to success...

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Originally posted by bassaholix .. no one in here has laughed..

yeah, i find that odd

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