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Originally posted by butterfly is that car sniffing shit or catfood?

It's cat-puke

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Het doel van een heel deel hier is niet over muziek te praten maar door zijn deelname aan discussies een zo groot mogelijk intellect proberen aan de dag te leggen en daarmee een rare vorm van zelfbevrediging in werking stellen. 'It's a strange world'

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Originally posted by Nabistai this totally proves my earlier statement about that guy being an asshole

well...lets just say guys aren't the only ones that do this sorta thing...but yeah he's an asshole...what can i say...i'm a good guy .

how about this situation...i went out with this girl briefly...she broke up with me...after a while i went out with her friend...and she was mad??? she broke up with me?? what the hell??? anyway, i think its a good rule not to go out with friends of ex's hehehe...

Men never leave if they are happy. You must have done something wrong...perhaps sex. think about it.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller well...lets just say guys aren't the only ones that do this sorta thing...but yeah he's an asshole...what can i say...i'm a good guy . how about this situation...i went out with this girl briefly...she broke up with me...after a while i went out with her friend...and she was mad??? she broke up with me?? what the hell??? anyway, i think its a good rule not to go out with friends of ex's hehehe...

The words 'she broke up with me' and (even more important I think) 'after a while' make this situation completely different. Don't worry, you're still a nice guy

And yes, I am aware that it's not only men who do this kind of stuff (they are referred to as bitches )

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Het doel van een heel deel hier is niet over muziek te praten maar door zijn deelname aan discussies een zo groot mogelijk intellect proberen aan de dag te leggen en daarmee een rare vorm van zelfbevrediging in werking stellen. 'It's a strange world'

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Originally posted by Floorfiller well...lets just say guys aren't the only ones that do this sorta thing...but yeah he's an asshole...what can i say...i'm a good guy . how about this situation...i went out with this girl briefly...she broke up with me...after a while i went out with her friend...and she was mad??? she broke up with me?? what the hell??? anyway, i think its a good rule not to go out with friends of ex's hehehe...

yeah i think your situation is permissible, unless there is something else you arent telling us...

Basically, if you are single, you can mingle.

How the hell is he supposed to know when the "depression" is over?

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Originally posted by davinox Basically, if you are single, you can mingle. How the hell is he supposed to know when the "depression" is over?

well, you could look at it the other way, as in if i said i was looking for a therapist he might be able to assume i wasnt doing so well.

or you could take the time approach. what is the appropriate amount of time before you can date under your ex's nose? is there an appropriate time?

also, being single and mingling is fine but this wasnt just that. it is dating girls who were friends that is also thrown into it...

and i still cant figure out if it was ok for him to do that or not...

well, the situation sounds like a mess for the both of you. the thing i would now suggest (knowing very few details) would be to go your seperate ways and not blame him.

It's a shame that it's one of your friends.

But say if you do decide it was wrong, he's not going to leave her, because people don't leave people that they truely care about. Pretty much all he can do is comfort you, but ultimately he's gone from you.
All you can do is ask him to break up with her, (which, under the best circumstances, he'll half-ass'ly say yes and not mean it) or yell at him, and little does any good.

Was what he did wrong? It's not ideal, but relationships are a big emotional ordeal, and things like this happen.

Stay strong, and you'll do fine. Best of luck to you.

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The father made fetuses with flesh licking ladies / While you and your mother were asleep in the trailer park / Thunderous sparks from the dark of the stadiums / The music and medicine you needed for comforting / So make all your fat, fleshy fingers fingers to moving / And pluck all your silly strings and / Bend all your notes for me and / Soft silly music is meaningful, magical / The movements were beautiful / All in your ovaries / All of them milking with green fleshy flowers / While powerful pistons were sugary sweet machines, / Smelling of semen all under the garden / Was all you were needing when you still believed in me.

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Originally posted by davinox well, the situation sounds like a mess for the both of you. the thing i would now suggest (knowing very few details) would be to go your seperate ways and not blame him. It's a shame that it's one of your friends. But say if you do decide it was wrong, he's not going to leave her, because people don't leave people that they truely care about. Pretty much all he can do is comfort you, but ultimately he's gone from you. All you can do is ask him to break up with her, (which, under the best circumstances, he'll half-ass'ly say yes and not mean it) or yell at him, and little does any good. Was what he did wrong? It's not ideal, but relationships are a big emotional ordeal, and things like this happen. Stay strong, and you'll do fine. Best of luck to you.

this post is kinda in hindsight of the real torment for me. i am doing better and i have gone my own way and i have been seeing soneone else for a while now.

my issue is that i know i havent forgiven him and i wish i could. i dont like her but i think he does love her, even though it has only been a short time for them together. as he isnt my friend anymore (losing your best friend sucks but that is a different issue) i have no right to make demands of what he does and esp not of his relationship. when we first broke up and were still talking i requested that he respect me and not date for a while but now i wouldnt ask anything like that of him cause i dont have the right to.

i guess my issue is, if he is out of my life and i respect that he is in a realtionship with someone he cares about, why cant i forgive them? was it wrong or am i stubborn? i feel very disrespected by the whole situation but i wonder if i am biased and i am not seeing it clearly. that is why i asked you all.

You shouldn't feel like you have to forgive him.
You were the one who got shafted.
I would deem it an unfortunate circumstance, and move on, rather than wonder who's to blame and who's stubborn.

it must me hard, but it must be done.

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The father made fetuses with flesh licking ladies / While you and your mother were asleep in the trailer park / Thunderous sparks from the dark of the stadiums / The music and medicine you needed for comforting / So make all your fat, fleshy fingers fingers to moving / And pluck all your silly strings and / Bend all your notes for me and / Soft silly music is meaningful, magical / The movements were beautiful / All in your ovaries / All of them milking with green fleshy flowers / While powerful pistons were sugary sweet machines, / Smelling of semen all under the garden / Was all you were needing when you still believed in me.

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Originally posted by Nabistai lol that actually happens alot around here, except that my cat is completely white instead of black this totally proves my earlier statement about that guy being an asshole

but me and my ex were already broken up, and she was the one who wanted some of my johnny depp so its not really my fault. she quite enjoy it too.

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