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see idiots like that, do it often like that, use ppl...that's why you destroy them before dating them. Then no fucking problems!

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Originally posted by politicsofdancin ......ok..now, one question? who is the idiot that put up with all these things????????????????? YOU....stop complaining!!! gEESuz I don't have sympathy to people like you coz apparently, the friend of yours have noticed from the very beginning you kneeled in front of him and did his every command....that you can be his lil puppet...yes you noticed it, but you NEVER put a stop to it...sorry to be harsh...but you asked for it..

yeah right, so you bitch at her for being a nice person. They were in a serious relationship and both have to be nice and helpful to each other. He's the one who took advantage of that situation and of her moreover he has no manners.

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Originally posted by anuneventrade I was addicted to the sex, what can I say. I put up with it, because he was an amazing boyfriend up until these past few weeks. He was Mr. Perfect. I put up with it, because in the back of my mind I had some false hope that he would return the guy I fell madly in love with. I hate him now for how he treats me, and I wish he never came back, but then again I don't. I know I put myself in a shitty situation, I'm not denying it was my fault. What I am bitching about is how he took advantage of the fact that I'm gullible and so damn giving. I give my whole heart out and thats the problem.

i wonder if the big change in his behavior was cause he cheated on you or something.

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Originally posted by ahlamalek yeah right, so you bitch at her for being a nice person. They were in a serious relationship and both have to be nice and helpful to each other. He's the one who took advantage of that situation and of her moreover he has no manners.

Ya, even though I'm all anti-feminist and usually blame the girl, I'm going to agree with Malek here. How the hell can you condemn the girl in this case? I mean, okay, maybe she could have ended it a week or two earlier, but when someone suddenly starts treating you like dirt who's treated you like royalty for the past... well whatever, she didn't say how long... what do you do? How do you know if they're just stressed out or if they really suddenly turned into a complete asshole?

Assholistic behaviour in relationships is not cool. All I ever say is to be a challenge, not a jerk!

I'll say it... some girls turn into bitches and that's why their boyfriends turn into assholes... but somehow that doesn't sound like what happened here, if she was cleaning his apartment after he dumped her! Give the girl a break, she was trying her best to save a long-term relationship and the guy decided to two-time her!

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I don't know where the change came from, all I know is it came. We were living together, so its worse. And right now, He is saying such hurtful things. He just got back a few days ago. As I stated previously, I had a death from someone close to me, so I wasn't in the chipperist of moods.

Now, he is saying that I am too negative, and that I give him a headache, and how its rude of me to be upset and try to talk to him about having a bad week.

Thats not fair, at all. I was always there for him. He needed someone, I was there. He needed someone to take care of him, I'd drive there at midnight and stay up until five am, with the wet washcloths, medicne, soup and his fav popsicles to make him feel better, and miss class the next day. I'd comfort him and reassure him when he is having a bad day. If I have a problem, its kinda like "deal with it yourself". And if the careful mask that I put on that keeps smiling falters, and I actually show that I am upset, I get treated unfairly, as though I am some burden.

I never asked for much. I even forgave him when he went on a trip with three girls w/o telling me. One he had slept with before we got together. He called me on his way back, and was surprised that I might be upset.

It makes me lose faith in guys, honestly. He was considerable older than me. You'd think he'd be wiser too.

see men like that, NEED TO BE DESTROYED. I have no time or respect for fuckwit men who take advantage of women and use them. Tho if you are a woman and have a man like that and wish to get back at him, lemme know, I'm more than happy to tell you how.

I hate men like that because it gives the proper men who honestly give a fucking damn about women, a bad rep.

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Originally posted by torontotrance see men like that, NEED TO BE DESTROYED. I have no time or respect for fuckwit men who take advantage of women and use them. Tho if you are a woman and have a man like that and wish to get back at him, lemme know, I'm more than happy to tell you how. I hate men like that because it gives the proper men who honestly give a fucking damn about women, a bad rep.

It also gives the women a reason to be bitter and treat their next guys like crap. All it takes is one bad egg to spoil the whole batter.

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Originally posted by anuneventrade I don't know where the change came from, all I know is it came. We were living together, so its worse. And right now, He is saying such hurtful things. He just got back a few days ago. As I stated previously, I had a death from someone close to me, so I wasn't in the chipperist of moods. Now, he is saying that I am too negative, and that I give him a headache, and how its rude of me to be upset and try to talk to him about having a bad week. Thats not fair, at all. I was always there for him. He needed someone, I was there. He needed someone to take care of him, I'd drive there at midnight and stay up until five am, with the wet washcloths, medicne, soup and his fav popsicles to make him feel better, and miss class the next day. I'd comfort him and reassure him when he is having a bad day. If I have a problem, its kinda like "deal with it yourself". And if the careful mask that I put on that keeps smiling falters, and I actually show that I am upset, I get treated unfairly, as though I am some burden. I never asked for much. I even forgave him when he went on a trip with three girls w/o telling me. One he had slept with before we got together. He called me on his way back, and was surprised that I might be upset. It makes me lose faith in guys, honestly. He was considerable older than me. You'd think he'd be wiser too.

i definitely think he cheated on you.

and also, if they havent grown up by the time they are 30, they never will.

and you wonder how i got this way eh.

something tells me he cheated... same thing with the girl i know, her bf cheated and everyting fucked up after.

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Originally posted by ahlamalek yeah right, so you bitch at her for being a nice person. They were in a serious relationship and both have to be nice and helpful to each other. He's the one who took advantage of that situation and of her moreover he has no manners.

well...the reason for my tone of voice is clearly stated in my post...why don't you read it over again...then make this comment..gEEsuz...i feel bad for the girl, but the question is why once she noticed the abrupt change in her bf, why she didn't leave OR put him in his place??? that is what i'am trying to state...

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Originally posted by politicsofdancin well...the reason for my tone of voice is clearly stated in my post...why don't you read it over again...then make this comment..gEEsuz...i feel bad for the girl, but the question is why once she noticed the abrupt change in her bf, why she didn't leave OR put him in his place??? that is what i'am trying to state...

you make it sound so easy... leaving a person isn't that easy and matter of fact we don't know the whole story, maybe they got into arguments.

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