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Thanks for all the opinions, all of which have some merit. I just needed to vent a little and hear what other people had to say. The thing that irks me the most is I always hear woman saying they want a man who treats them right, is presentable to family and friends, is intelligent, has a good job and is capable of dealing with emotional stress and family matters etc, etc, etc. I think you catch my drift.
Not to sound conceited, but I fit that mold. I've been told time and time again by friends and people that I've dated that I'm what they were looking for, well, that is until I tell the dates I have a daughter. If I'm what you're looking for, than why let the fact that I have a child be a hinderance or "hurdle to overcome" No one ever said dealing with love and relationships was easy. Realistically speaking, I know a child adds a whole different chapter or branch, for lack of better word, in building a relationship, but why should it be considered a negative mark? I can understand if I were some derelect that wasn't involved in my child's life and stood out on the corner with "my niggaz and passed that blunt around". Whatever. I'll end my venting with this: I find myself telling myself that maybe some women aren't mature enough or capable of dealing with this type of situation and arn't able to accept the fact that they would have to share the spotlight and attention with my daughter, with my daughter taking priority. If that's the case, I could understand why they don't want to get involved. Again, thanks for letting me vent.
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27 time champs Bitches!
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