i really think if you are looking for someone, you probably won't find them. I have been dating this boy for a year now and i met him at a resturant i was waitressing at. He was a cook and i never really noticed me until he came up to me between picking up food and introduced himself and said i looked like a cool person and he gave me his phone number, pretty ballsy but it worked. I am the first girlfriend he has had and quite possibly the last. I think you need to relax and take into consideration the girls that are already around you instead of looking in specific places. Maybe this will help? Nice picture by the way.

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Originally posted by wienerschnitzel I am the first girlfriend he has had and quite possibly the last.

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i don't know what the hell that face means but i deserve it because i wrote a stupid sentance like that and couldn't be arsed to back it up. Quite frankly because he pissed me off today and i got sick of talking about him like some lovesick teeny bopper but what i ment was we have been talking about tieing the knot in the future... sorry for the confusion and what the hell is that face anyways whiskers?

If you have trouble finding a right girl at clubs/bars, try some local university/college/whatever Internet portal/forum or something like that. At my place we have a student portal with profiles and forum where a lot of people meet. I met my gf that way.

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Originally posted by KawalaBear where do I start? I'm sure there was something like this post in the past but here it is anyways, if your a guy like me you will understand what I mean, if your a girl please inform us guys how to go about this Okay this might seem lame to some of you but I don’t give a damn cause I am confused as are many other guys out there. Here it goes. Yes I am single as are many out there, now to get to the point is how on earth one like myself is or another single Girl suppose to meet? I go to clubs from time to time, movies, parks, and other social area's where people hang out talk etc.., so I got the general idea where to meet "the person" I am not a total nerd, nor I am a super stud, I consider myself a regular Joe if you will.. well sort of. Anyways how would you go about knowing how a girl likes you if you at a club or anywhere else for that matter? When your at a club, rave or party the music is too freakin loud to talk to anyone most of the time. But that’s not the main problem the main problem for me is to distinguish if the girl is "Attracted" to you or wants to talk to you. Is there some sort of hidden sign or signal? Girls in general are nice to you even if they don’t know you I notice this because I see many people (young women) around me where I currently work. If you get past all that lets say you notice she likes you, who should go over and introduce them self’s? The Male? Or the Female? I'm sure many of the girls out there say it’s the Male that should approach? But please if you want us to approach give us a damn signal or something ?! We are simple minded male that do not have the decoder that young women have to understand what is going on in your minds. And finally when you meet this girl lets say at a party or else where and you start talking in a group or 1 on 1, how do you know if your just talking friend on friend or the girl wants more than to be just a friend? Here is a picture of me just for the hell of it, comments, insults etc.. are welcome but I'll probably ignore the insults . So that’s my confusion in a nut-shell im sure there’s more that I can’t think of, so if I missed out a problem that some of you have that is not shown in this thread please Post it. All help appreciated.

one more thing.. stop being a vagina and go crush some ass!!

I find it funny how most (if not all?) replies in this thread are by males.

Just don't think about it so much. Go out and enjoy the people you're with. Women can tell when a guy is out partying and trying to pick up, and they avoid those men. Well, most of us do. There's always the girl looking to get laid, and from your post, it doesn't seem that's what you're after (primarily.)

Great people come into your life when you're least expecting it. So go out, have a good time, and let things happen naturally. There's no set of rules for human interaction, so you're wasting your time looking for them.

a couple things

it's difficult to meet girls in clubs unless you let them come to you, b/c we have dealt w/ many agressive guys at clubs and even if they are good-looking their behaviour can turn us off. It's refreshing to have a guy just talk to us and not try to get anything from us.

2nd of all. the best way to meet girls is inadvertantly through friends and aquantances. Try to be social and get out and whatnot but w/ having fun in mind, not anything else.

3rd. charm and charisma and probably more important that looks. so work on that!

best of luck. you sound like a nice guy.

taraxo

like i say to all my friends who are single and ask the same questions is...

Stop looking.. it will find you when the time is right, and when you least expect it.

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I must say though that it is possible to meet people in clubs, although not very common...

I met my BF in line at the Tiesto party in October of 2001, and next week is our two year anniversary.

He's also not engaged anymore

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Originally posted by wienerschnitzel what i ment was we have been talking about tieing the knot in the future... sorry for the confusion and what the hell is that face anyways whiskers?

you know what, that's exactly what i thought... happy "his last girlfriend", not the other outcome...


and that face is the infamous "hmmmmm..." face aka :-/ or :/

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