bluntly put

look, you are not in the right mind to date anyone anotherway83. You have gone through too much of late and I don't think that dating anyone would help you or them. I mean sort your own troubles out then go back to dating. I mean it's not fair to whoever you are dating because you have a lot of issues to work out. I just don't think you are in full control on yourself, I mean you almost tried to end your life and less than a week later, you have fallen in love. Dude, do yourself a favor and take a step back and sort your own issues out then think about dating again. I also think that the emotions are haywire after traumatic experiences, so I don't recommend it. If you get more rejected, what will that do to your self esteem?, we all want the best for you, so take my advice.

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Originally posted by torontotrance bluntly put look, you are not in the right mind to date anyone anotherway83. You have gone through too much of late and I don't think that dating anyone would help you or them. I mean sort your own troubles out then go back to dating. I mean it's not fair to whoever you are dating because you have a lot of issues to work out. I just don't think you are in full control on yourself, I mean you almost tried to end your life and less than a week later, you have fallen in love. Dude, do yourself a favor and take a step back and sort your own issues out then think about dating again. I also think that the emotions are haywire after traumatic experiences, so I don't recommend it. If you get more rejected, what will that do to your self esteem?, we all want the best for you, so take my advice.

What he said.

And what Butterfly said. It's her job to be nice to you. Plus you were on all sorts of medications at the time, 1/2 of what you were "feeling" was probably all in your head.

Never date an older woman, they are too saggy imho.

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get a cat!

no get a dog!

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Originally posted by smallSHEEP Never date an older woman, they are too saggy imho.

Ignorant statement of the year....

guess u guys are right...i'll just pass for now...i've always had a thing for older women tho heheh

thanks all for the advice

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Originally posted by butterfly dont do it. it is her job to be kind to you.

ouch!

dude go for it. best situation ever. Either she says yes and you get an older woman (i love em too) or she says no and gets to blame it on the 3 year thing. No harsh turn downs. Fuckin do it!