I think you shouldn't let those small stupid things excite you so much.

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drop the zero and go with the hero

*points at self*

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wow! you guys are great at this! i wasn't really expecting sympathy and when i woke up this morning i completely forgot about this thread. Now that my pout is over, i can better explain the situation. My boyfriend works at a chain restaurant and he was signed up for this 'secret santa' gift exchange. He didn't want to go because:
1) it ment he had to buy a gift for someone
2) he's not even friends with these people and finds them irritating
3) we weren't drinking and everyone else was, infact, all they were doing was drinking and watching tv.
4) he was really tired because he started working at 7 am and didn't finish until 5pm, and had to open the kitchen again the next day.

So he went the party so he could avoid getting a hard time about it the next day. I volunteered to go with him since he needed a ride and also so he wouldn't be alone durring the party. (i was trying to be a trooper). So the reason these people started making the "controling bitch" statements is because jeremy doesn't go to their "parties" because he doesn't really like them and has better things to do with his time. The people at work automatically assume that i am telling him that he has to stay at home or something really stupid like that. I don't know what it is but these people can't figure out jeremy is nice to them because he is a nice guy, but doesn't want to hang out with them. and this has happened on several occasions where jeremy left early and i took the heat. So i am sick of it! Jeremy has explained to them once that he was a big boy and makes his own decisions but they don't see it that way, i guess? So now that i've slept on it i don't care anymore, but i won't go to anymore of these functions, thats for damn sure. Jeremy was a total **** last night when i took him home, getting angry at me for being upset, (im assuming because he didn't know how to deal with it) so i don't know when i will hear from him again, probably when he apoligizes. Slylee and diginut, i can be controlling sometimes because i like the security of the outcome, which isn't really a good thing, but i have learned through experience not to control in the relationship.

i must get ready for another day at the office...
thanks again..

Last edited by wienerschnitzel on Dec-22-2003 at 17:53

No prob.

But make sure you keep it real, aiight?

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wow, that sounds like a quality boyfriend. sign me up.

no...actually...dump that asshole.

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hi wienerschnitzel


please forgime my bluntness but sound like to me like your BF should gather the balls to head them fools up.

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thats kind of a poopy situation for both of you. A cool guy has to work with a bunch of boring tards and if he pisses them off his time working with them will suck.


but it sounds like those turds he works with were just being average drunk a-holes, I remember myself and my buddies doing that to people, although they were people we all knew, not a co-workers girlfriend.


and work parties suck, no matter what.

**edit** oops, nevermind that last statement, I just remembered when I accompanied my buddy to his....he was a dishwasher at Hooters 8-).

quote:

Originally posted by wienerschnitzel Now im sad, feed me with sympathy even though i know it doesn't matter and you could care less...

Actually, i couldnt care less

maybe you really are just a controlling bitch (?)

ahhhh, yes! thats the phrase im looking for!
he isn't an asshole, sometimes he needs to pull his head out of his ass. He came to apoligize to me today. I told him that i needed a man that would stick up for his girlfriend and he said he understood and next time the situation comes up he will take action. We will see. Placebo... im keeping it real.

"NO SYMPAHTY FOR YOU!!!!!!"


Sincerely,


The Sympathy Nazi

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