I see that when Guys start talking who women prefer (good or bad guys) it allways turns out that the base of it is not in a relationship its only for attraction.

I personally I consider myself a good guy, but its wrong to place ourselves in these two categories, because everyone has a good and a bad side, like Anunevertrade says, she looks for good guys but most of them turn out bad, Its not that they weren't good guys, its that Some don't know what they are getting into, for me I don't like commitment, or co-dependend ppl, but my last "relationship" was exactly that, and at the end I completely acted as a jerk instead of a nice guy (not proud of it). Why because I didn't know what I was getting into (or was in denial) LOL hehehehehehe

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Originally posted by whiskers there have been pretty long threads about this and we decided that girls tend to go for "flings" with the bad guys but when they want a serious, demanding relationship, they wise up and go for the "nice" type of a guy

yep took the words out of my mouth,, just hit few pages back and you will see few threads like this.

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Originally posted by anuneventrade All I ever look for are the nice guys. That's all I ever get involved with. But somehow, all the nice guys turn into horrible people after a period of time... So doesn't this theory mean that eventually all of you will turn into bad guys anyway? So why shouldn't I just start going after the bad guys to begin with? At least then I'll know what to expect. When a nice guy goes bad, it just hurts so much worse.

is that only because they dumped you?

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Originally posted by anuneventrade All I ever look for are the nice guys. That's all I ever get involved with. But somehow, all the nice guys turn into horrible people after a period of time... So doesn't this theory mean that eventually all of you will turn into bad guys anyway? So why shouldn't I just start going after the bad guys to begin with? At least then I'll know what to expect. When a nice guy goes bad, it just hurts so much worse.

yeah dude, a lot of the them do turn into dicks...even bigger dicks than the so-called "bad" guys...

but there are a few who don't...hard to find, yes...
but with nice guys, you gotta hang around, be their buddy for a while and see if they really are what you think...

I have a nice guy and i won't change that

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Originally posted by crchingtiger yeah dude, a lot of the them do turn into dicks...even bigger dicks than the so-called "bad" guys...

Dick/Jerk is a vague term that lacks explaination. Did they physically abuse you, verbally taunt you, what the hell did they do to earn their dick status?

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i think i go for the good guys cuz thats usualy the type of guys ive dated so far...

but sometimes i wish i could date a bad guy i guess just to see the diffrence... all in all i'm happy wit my good guy now..

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Originally posted by jennypie
Because you're a filthy WHORE!

I think the simple answer to this question is that they date bad guys but delude themselves into thinking that they're really good guys.

The thing about the two categories is correct though... the vast majority of guys are going to be nice to a girl when she's buying gifts, putting out, and making sandwiches, whereas they're going to be jerks when she's getting demanding, being a slut, or arguing with every little thing. Different circumstances bring out different sides of people, and it's only when one is really really comfortable with themselves and their bf/gf that they can continue to be "good" even when the other person is being "bad".

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Originally posted by DigiNut ...when she's buying gifts, putting out, and making sandwiches..

brilliant

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Originally posted by Spyder i think i go for the good guys cuz thats usualy the type of guys ive dated so far... but sometimes i wish i could date a bad guy i guess just to see the diffrence... all in all i'm happy wit my good guy now..

If you only knew the power of the dark side. muahahaha

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