I always thought that being yourself, not ake plus being self-confident are attractive to other sex.

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but on the other hand maybe i'm just jealous and bitter at the fact that i didn't get sex tonight

you need to improve your mack skillzzzz.

I always thought that being yourself, not ake plus being self-confident are attractive to other sex.

its more about wit, humor, and yo don't smell desperate.





at the clubs, all i love to do is rip it up on the floor. that always get the girls attention. I've seen those "wow" drooling stares.. BIG Green light is on. unfortunately, i can be snobby sometimes because i'm too zoned in with the musik to care. then there are the times, no green light, I'll go >deep<, and the outcome is not what is expected. *buzz get turned down.

Doh!

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Originally posted by MysticStardust I'll answer your question with a question of my own. How come guys get attracted to dumb blondes with big boobs? If you answer that question, you have an answer to your own question.

Simply not true. I and many others much prefer a cute face and a decent figure (not "anorexic" figure, but "goes to the gym after splurging on the ice cream" figure) instead of big boobs - not that I mean to imply that they are mutually exclusive, although it's rare to find someone who's got it all. And in my circle of friends at least, the dumb ones usually get labelled with the comment "Everything was going great... until she opened her mouth"

Point is, though, that the stupid ones are easy. The smart ones have a habit of making too big a deal of the fact that they're getting "picked up", and it's intimidating to everyone but the very experienced and the complete assholes. Not every guy is looking for a set of melons, but don't forget that contrary to the gals, most of us aren't looking for a major challenge either. It's not required to be a vapid slut, but it helps to get over your 12-year-old-girlie impulse to play "hard to get".

That might shed some light on your bitter question.

Dave: of course the guys are put on, but then again so are the girls. Just look at Britney. I had a hard time buying it when she was a "virgin", but now that she's supposed to be a "slut" I'm not sure I believe it either. All of it is so damn phoney and calculated, and yet millions of guys across the globe just eat it up and ask for more.

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Well I think alot of guys try to go out there and PIMP as they call it. Same with girls. In reality are you goign to meet a good girl or a good guy when you go to a club or sumthing? Can you trust them? I say spit game get in there pants and get it over with.

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Originally posted by MysticStardust I'll answer your question with a question of my own. How come guys get attracted to dumb blondes with big boobs? If you answer that question, you have an answer to your own question.

Diginut's answer covers some good ground.

My answer:

It only looks that way because the guys with better taste (there's plenty of them) often keep to themselves because they're shy and/or cynical or, sorry, taken. As for that answering the ORIGINAL question, I wonder.

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Originally posted by DigiNut [COLOR=#99CCEE]Simply not true. I and many others much prefer a cute face and a decent figure (not "anorexic" figure, but "goes to the gym after splurging on the ice cream" figure) instead of big boobs - not that I mean to imply that they are mutually exclusive, although it's rare to find someone who's got it all. And in my circle of friends at least, the dumb ones usually get labelled with the comment "Everything was going great... until she opened her mouth" Point is, though, that the stupid ones are easy. The smart ones have a habit of making too big a deal of the fact that they're getting "picked up", and it's intimidating to everyone but the very experienced and the complete assholes. Not every guy is looking for a set of melons, but don't forget that contrary to the gals, most of us aren't looking for a major challenge either. It's not required to be a vapid slut, but it helps to get over your 12-year-old-girlie impulse to play "hard to get". That might shed some light on your bitter question. COLOR]

From who's perspective are you speaking from? Male or female?

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Originally posted by MysticStardust From who's perspective are you speaking from? Male or female?

Male of course.

Stupidity is only attractive to stupid people (which I suppose is most people... oops sorry forgot to mention that ).

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2009-02-21 - DJ Attention @ I'm So Popular
2009-06-18 - DJ Annoying @ People Need To Know Where I'll Be
2012-11-32 - DJ Insufferable ɸ Or At Least the Stalkers I Complain About
2048-06-66 - Spastic & Whocares ¶ Although I'm Actually Flattered
9999-45-81 - Tweaker Gimp ☼ I Probably Won't Even Go To This But I Have To Make Sure I Fill Up All The Available Space Here

Well anyways, what I was trying to show was that guys are attracted to dumb blondes for dumb reasons, the same goes for girls who are attracted to "fake" guys. Usually for me it is a big turn off so I can't really see from the perspective of those girls. However, I think they like those guys because they usually know how to have fun and how to make a girl laugh so obviosly we'll choose them. But thats only in the case of looking for a fun night, in most cases girls very much dislike guys who think they're all that.

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Originally posted by MysticStardust Well anyways, what I was trying to show was that guys are attracted to dumb blondes for dumb reasons, the same goes for girls who are attracted to "fake" guys. Usually for me it is a big turn off so I can't really see from the perspective of those girls. However, I think they like those guys because they usually know how to have fun and how to make a girl laugh so obviosly we'll choose them. But thats only in the case of looking for a fun night, in most cases girls very much dislike guys who think they're all that.

Oh don't be so black and white, there are more than two kinds of people. Besides, faking confidence is harder than you might think.

People choose the fun ones for long-term relationships too... they may not be good choices but they sure are chosen a lot.

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2009-02-21 - DJ Attention @ I'm So Popular
2009-06-18 - DJ Annoying @ People Need To Know Where I'll Be
2012-11-32 - DJ Insufferable ɸ Or At Least the Stalkers I Complain About
2048-06-66 - Spastic & Whocares ¶ Although I'm Actually Flattered
9999-45-81 - Tweaker Gimp ☼ I Probably Won't Even Go To This But I Have To Make Sure I Fill Up All The Available Space Here

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Originally posted by DigiNut Oh don't be so black and white, there are more than two kinds of people. Besides, faking confidence is harder than you might think. People choose the fun ones for long-term relationships too... they may not be good choices but they sure are chosen a lot.

I resent the black and white comment . I just say the way things are. It's hard to believe that "fun" guys get chosen for long term relationships because as far as I know, all of them are irresponsible and immature( and I thought long term relationships were based on responsibility, maturity and respect). However, that is just my opinion and I think you'd know better (since you're a guy and I bet you belong to "fun" guy club as well...am I right?).

Getting back to what you have said earlier and I quote : "The smart ones have a habit of making too big a deal of the fact that they're getting "picked up", and it's intimidating to everyone but the very experienced and the complete assholes." Does that mean all guys are only interested in easy fucks?

P.S My question was not bitter. I simply tried to show that guys and girls are the same. Sometimes, we are attracted to opposite sex for very stupid reasons, e.g. "fakeness"( or over-confidence) in males and big boobs/blonde hair/ no brain in females.





Go figure...Humans are very complicated beings.

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It's for these reasons of "fakeness" and girls playing hard to get that I pretty much gave up on trying to meet girls in clubs. Guys trying to pimp out and be players are fuckheads IMO. When I go out I'm there to hear good music, see people I know and get wrecked. Period. There are just too many annoying, phony, bitchy girls out there for me to bother trying to chat with them. If a girl is interested in me, then it is ENTIRELY up to her to make the first move. If a girl comes up and dances/chats with me then that's fine, I'm always very nice...I don't put up with girls making stupid innuendos like bumping into me out of the clear blue to get my attention or whatever. Either they come up to me and make it clear that they're interested, or I leave them alone and have a good time.

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