i like to have fun. i used to get pissed off when certain people said certain things and i'm sure these people know that i didn't like them. i've even told a few that i didn't like them. but now my attitude is much more relaxed. *i* get along with everyone, although some may not get along with me. but i dont care. i dont think i flame or anything. (unless its pvd). but yes, i do change topics alot. i can't help myself. and alot of my topic changed are in threads that were going nowhere or have no relevance, etc. like the 197th pvd thread. i feel it is my obligation to change the topic. heh. but all in all, i love my nyta people (except highmay, he's a prick and a yankee fan ) but seriously, i love you all. even though most dont know me or whatever. i dont see this forum as being shitty. the only thing i see as shitty are the people who take EVERYTHING so seriously. like, if i flame pvd people get offended, like he's their dad or something. that's just ghey.

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*can't imagine it feelin' much better...
i wish it would just last forever.
and so, to feel like that?
i'd pay any price just to get that back.*

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Originally posted by DR86 sot and BBNYC- I definitely agree with both of you. As of late, I've found that it has become almost forbidden for people to just post random shit. For all of you hecklers and peanut-gallery members out there, just drop the badass attitude and let people have fun. If you really have an issue, take it to PM's. I used to enjoy the days where there were random threads all over the place. The thing that has made this forum "the worst" is that fact that people have forgotten how to kick back and let the good times roll. Ignore the shit you don't want to see, and have fun.

This is exactly how I feel about this. We should all just look to have fun and keep the attitudes to a mum. Like I said, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions and disagreements, it's just some peoples ego's/attitudes, in blunt honesty, fucking suck.

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it's just some peoples ego's/attitudes, in blunt honesty, fucking suck.

I agree - also, when people argue, opponents of said argument will take their statements TOO personally, and attack the person themeselves, overlooking their argument/position. That's the difference between a civilized debate and a flame war.

I would attribute some of this hard-headedness to the devoted following trance has here in NYC. This is a good thing in that these people are the people who keep the scene running; they support the DJs who come in and keep tabs on the trance world. However, this can be a bad thing in that this same level of devotion causes some fans to confine "trance" to a very narrow definition; and that makes discussion about the subject difficult.

Overall, the board is cool, but lots of the attitudes can irk you. I try to be clear and courteous in my posts, and this seems to keep things moving. However, it does pay to ignore most of the disses you come across - they are simply not worth the time - I mean, this is a friggin' message board. Not like people can "meet each other outside" to settle things!

Peace,
Slick

It's all about being VIP baby! hah