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whiskers
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Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams

quote:
Originally posted by mezzir
hijacked! cause ultimate is more interesting right now



yeah why don't you play in the spring anyways? never quite knew. and maybe now that i'm gonna go to UMass i can finally meet someone from TA that i didn't invite here in the first place

aah man this weekend we went to the Yale cup, got top 8 i think, but we did pretty well in the games we lost. it was dope though, i'm a new player so i don't play much and in one game we were down like 5-1 quick cause she had been playing the subs since it was supposed to be an easy game. so she put the starters back in and they brought it back a bit by half, then a few points into the second half she finally put me in (even though i had played like 2 points all day i didn't make it in the first half before the starters went back in) and i got a lay out D on my man who was cutting to the break side, then after a few passes broke the mark with a backhand for the score
it was dope, i think i made a good impression



lol, ultimate talk, turns me on


i was gonna play but then i had to take college writing and it interferes with practice + i have a gay compsci professor who thinks we shouldn't have lives so he assigns us 12 hours of homework a week + reading

i love it when Tiina does the thing with the subs, cuz each time we played you guys you'd get 2 points ahead and she'd put the subs in and then we'd totally tool on them and she'd be like "will, ari, get back in"

shiat, i'm still bitter at having it 11-9 and then losing it 13-15 or whatever it was in 2002 nationals... shiat, 3rd place in the country isn't bad for a junior but 2nd or maybe even first would've been way better... damn, i think i need to practice more because i thinking i'm losing my magic throws...


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Vivid Boy
TA's GodFather



Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O

girlies this hunk is on the rebound..



trying to help the best i can man

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elena
vinyls are sexy



Registered: Jan 2002
Location: nyc

there's no better cure than a boy's day out, seriously.

if she were having a hard time at home or wherever else, that's more of a reason not to let you go btw.

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mezzir
BEES?



Registered: Nov 2002
Location: assachusetts

quote:
Originally posted by whiskers
lol, ultimate talk, turns me on


i was gonna play but then i had to take college writing and it interferes with practice + i have a gay compsci professor who thinks we shouldn't have lives so he assigns us 12 hours of homework a week + reading

i love it when Tiina does the thing with the subs, cuz each time we played you guys you'd get 2 points ahead and she'd put the subs in and then we'd totally tool on them and she'd be like "will, ari, get back in"

shiat, i'm still bitter at having it 11-9 and then losing it 13-15 or whatever it was in 2002 nationals... shiat, 3rd place in the country isn't bad for a junior but 2nd or maybe even first would've been way better... damn, i think i need to practice more because i thinking i'm losing my magic throws...

should i let you know if we're gonna play pick up sometime or something?
sounds like you're deprived

vivid: appreciate it as usual but this place isn't usually the greatest place for attracting chicas

elena: amen to the boys day out, i got a week off next week so that should help. and the stuff at home was eating her time more and more and she was getting more and more down, and while i coulda helped she said she didn't wanna hurt me anymore, cause it was getting me down too
eh idk, i'll talk to her in a few days or something

back to ultimate talk!


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mezzir
BEES?



Registered: Nov 2002
Location: assachusetts

Tufts (Black) v. MIT (Red) this weekend at the Yale Cup


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whiskers
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Registered: Sep 2001
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quote:
Originally posted by mezzir
Tufts (Black) v. MIT (Red) this weekend at the Yale Cup




fack, that dude got skied!!




i don't have any good ones, but this one was pretty funny:











look at will, he's humping that dude in mid-air!!!!!!!


hope you're all cheered up now, man, all this ultimate talk


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Nell
sure thing



Registered: Feb 2001
Location: Newcastle , England

seriously, as hard as it is just find a distraction (another girl is the best solution) and 2), if your out and about with your friends or whatever, ignore her as she wishes, BUT make sure you look like your having a great time without her. if she wants you back, she'll coem for you. were you guys serious at all after 4 months? cos i have a little rule with serious relationships... only beg once (if at all) after pleading once never show you care, are unhappy etc etc. and the best way to get over someone (as hard as it is again) is to break any form of contact at all with her, includign phone calls or seeing. if you avoid her for long enough-things will sort em selves out.

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mezzir
BEES?



Registered: Nov 2002
Location: assachusetts

quote:
Originally posted by whiskers
fack, that dude got skied!!




i don't have any good ones, but this one was pretty funny:











look at will, he's humping that dude in mid-air!!!!!!!


hope you're all cheered up now, man, all this ultimate talk

aaah that made my day
i'm so showing will that tomorrow


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CynepMeH
Let me wash your Apple!



Registered: Oct 2002
Location: Miles away from ordinary...
Re: Dealing with the end of a relationship

quote:
Originally posted by mezzir
I always thought to myself i'd never start a relationship thread, but once again i'm proving myself wrong. Basically, my gf of a bit over 4 months broke up with me monday afternoon, and it came as a bit of a suprise. she stressed over and over that it wasn't me and she just would be hurting me more in the long run, but if anything it made me feel worse cause she didn't even give me anything to blame on myself, and helplessness is the fucking worst feeling in the world.
so for anyone who's been in this situation, what the hell am i supposed to do? its not like i can care for her with all the world on day then a few days later just be normal, i haven't slept more than like 4-5 hours and haven't been eating just cause everything seems slightly off w/o her. this sucks.
and as much as i want to do everything in my power to get her back, she specifically said she just needs time to herself and the one thign i don't make exceptions for is respecting honesty and respecting her opinion, so it leaves me with nothing i can do
does this just go away or something or do i need to go get fucked up for a night or go flirt with someone else or what, cause this blows


Ok... imagine this... Your girl goes out on a date with some dude... She gets hammered. He starts sucking her face on the way to his car. She gets all worked up. On the way home she's giving him a hummer of his life while he fingers her. Then he takes her to his place, rips her clothes off and bangs the crap out of her while she's screaming her head off. How's that for a visual? Oh, what? that's cruel?

Guess what... GET THE FUCK OVER IT AND BE THE DUDE IN THIS STORY BUT WITH A DIFFERENT GIRL. This will fix you up. Look, I've had my share of stories just like yours and the only thing that fixed it was time. Nothing else. no convincing, no happy words, nothing. You know what else it means? It means you're mommas boy who has hard time being entertained on your own. You think chick wants some dude who will hang on to her like shit to shoe on a hot summer day? NO! She wants someone who can have fun no matter what. If you need someone to complete you or you're lonely alone - get some hobby. Go out meet people. I know its hard, you don't want to. You want to be in a relationship. But guess what? Fuck it... IF you get back together it would be waste of your time. NO WOMAN IS WORTH GOING BACK FOR IF SHE DUMPS YOU. None. I don't care what you say. I don't care what she thinks. I don't care how good she was to you or in bed or whatever. If she didn't find any good reasons to stick around with you first time around, by taking her back you'll be the proverbial dog that gets kicked but still runs to his master when he calls.

FUCK HER, get over yourself, find some hobby, jerk off, run around, get stoned, GET A FUCKING LIFE AND GET OVER HER. The moment you get yourself together, chicks will flock to you, even if you're one hell of an ugly mofo. As long as you're not a dick, can hold your own, have some sense and sense of humor - you're as good as golden.

Sorry if some of it is harsh - but I speak from experience and like I said above... read it again if it don't make sense.

P.S. SHE WILL (IF SHE HASN'T ALREADY) DO ALL THE DIRTY THINGS TO SOMEONE ELSE THAT SHE DID TO YOU. OH, YOU DON'T THINK SO??????


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mezzir
BEES?



Registered: Nov 2002
Location: assachusetts

i know you think you're being all helpful, but for CHRIST SAKE lay off the fucking crisitism. you know absolutely NOTHING about my life, aside from what i shared in my first post, and all I said i wanted was just perhaps some sympathy, i was mainly doing it to get some feelings out.
and now here comes you, sharing a nice vivid story about how i should go get rebound action by taking advantage of some random chick, yeah sounds fucking great you numbskull.
quote:
If you need someone to complete you or you're lonely alone - get some hobby. Go out meet people. I know its hard, you don't want to. You want to be in a relationship. But guess what? Fuck it... IF you get back together it would be waste of your time.

and while we're making sweeping generalizations based on nothing but a few strange personal experiences, i'm going to assume you've never been in a relationship where the other person means something besides the fact that she has a nice warm place to stick your dick when you get horny
i'm not saying we had true love or anything like that, but for shit's sake i stated that its been two days and i'm breaking a 4 month routine, and let alone the fact that its a relationship, even if it was a friend moving away, things are going to be weird for a little bit
and one other thing, if we never invested anything in relationships besides 'the one', the one that we were meant for or w/e you believe in, then wtf would we do with the rest of the time? as for now, i've found the best i've ever had and i'll be damned if i'm just gonna sit and get over it in a day
so pardon my french, CynepMeh, but fuck you.


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CynepMeH
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Registered: Oct 2002
Location: Miles away from ordinary...

quote:
Originally posted by mezzir
i know you think you're being all helpful, but for CHRIST SAKE lay off the fucking crisitism. you know absolutely NOTHING about my life, aside from what i shared in my first post, and all I said i wanted was just perhaps some sympathy, i was mainly doing it to get some feelings out.
and now here comes you, sharing a nice vivid story about how i should go get rebound action by taking advantage of some random chick, yeah sounds fucking great you numbskull.

and while we're making sweeping generalizations based on nothing but a few strange personal experiences, i'm going to assume you've never been in a relationship where the other person means something besides the fact that she has a nice warm place to stick your dick when you get horny
i'm not saying we had true love or anything like that, but for shit's sake i stated that its been two days and i'm breaking a 4 month routine, and let alone the fact that its a relationship, even if it was a friend moving away, things are going to be weird for a little bit
and one other thing, if we never invested anything in relationships besides 'the one', the one that we were meant for or w/e you believe in, then wtf would we do with the rest of the time? as for now, i've found the best i've ever had and i'll be damned if i'm just gonna sit and get over it in a day
so pardon my french, CynepMeh, but fuck you.


dude... you're a pathetic loser. That's all I got to say. I had a relationship with a girl for 3.5 years - we were best friends, of all things. Break up was a mutual decision. Took me over 2 years to get over it. Guess what - makes you one hard core mother******. I think I lost a part of me in the process. Sorry I can't give you a nice big hug and let you cry on my shoulder. But for every story you got for me, I bet I can top it 100X. Guess what... YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE THAT YOU WILL CONSIDER "THE ONE". You will then remember my words. Until then.... forgive my crude german "Fuck you too"

Happy now?

P.S. Don't take it personal - I'm sure your suffering and sharing is very near and dear to you. Sad you don't have close friends to give you support in this time of need and you got to share it here with bunch of strangers. Some of whom are assholes like... me.

Later... hope u'll feel better soon.


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INDY
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Registered: Apr 2003
Location: New York New York

go to your nearest strip bar and get yourself a lap dance



cheers
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