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mezzir
BEES?

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Location: assachusetts
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| quote: | Originally posted by whiskers
lol, ultimate talk, turns me on 
i was gonna play but then i had to take college writing and it interferes with practice + i have a gay compsci professor who thinks we shouldn't have lives so he assigns us 12 hours of homework a week + reading
i love it when Tiina does the thing with the subs, cuz each time we played you guys you'd get 2 points ahead and she'd put the subs in and then we'd totally tool on them and she'd be like "will, ari, get back in"
shiat, i'm still bitter at having it 11-9 and then losing it 13-15 or whatever it was in 2002 nationals... shiat, 3rd place in the country isn't bad for a junior but 2nd or maybe even first would've been way better... damn, i think i need to practice more because i thinking i'm losing my magic throws... |
should i let you know if we're gonna play pick up sometime or something?
sounds like you're deprived 
vivid: appreciate it as usual but this place isn't usually the greatest place for attracting chicas
elena: amen to the boys day out, i got a week off next week so that should help. and the stuff at home was eating her time more and more and she was getting more and more down, and while i coulda helped she said she didn't wanna hurt me anymore, cause it was getting me down too
eh idk, i'll talk to her in a few days or something
back to ultimate talk!
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Apr-15-2004 01:05
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mezzir
BEES?

Registered: Nov 2002
Location: assachusetts
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Apr-15-2004 01:06
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whiskers
old skool

Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
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Apr-15-2004 01:11
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CynepMeH
Let me wash your Apple!

Registered: Oct 2002
Location: Miles away from ordinary...
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Re: Dealing with the end of a relationship
| quote: | Originally posted by mezzir
I always thought to myself i'd never start a relationship thread, but once again i'm proving myself wrong. Basically, my gf of a bit over 4 months broke up with me monday afternoon, and it came as a bit of a suprise. she stressed over and over that it wasn't me and she just would be hurting me more in the long run, but if anything it made me feel worse cause she didn't even give me anything to blame on myself, and helplessness is the fucking worst feeling in the world.
so for anyone who's been in this situation, what the hell am i supposed to do? its not like i can care for her with all the world on day then a few days later just be normal, i haven't slept more than like 4-5 hours and haven't been eating just cause everything seems slightly off w/o her. this sucks.
and as much as i want to do everything in my power to get her back, she specifically said she just needs time to herself and the one thign i don't make exceptions for is respecting honesty and respecting her opinion, so it leaves me with nothing i can do
does this just go away or something or do i need to go get fucked up for a night or go flirt with someone else or what, cause this blows |
Ok... imagine this... Your girl goes out on a date with some dude... She gets hammered. He starts sucking her face on the way to his car. She gets all worked up. On the way home she's giving him a hummer of his life while he fingers her. Then he takes her to his place, rips her clothes off and bangs the crap out of her while she's screaming her head off. How's that for a visual? Oh, what? that's cruel?
Guess what... GET THE FUCK OVER IT AND BE THE DUDE IN THIS STORY BUT WITH A DIFFERENT GIRL. This will fix you up. Look, I've had my share of stories just like yours and the only thing that fixed it was time. Nothing else. no convincing, no happy words, nothing. You know what else it means? It means you're mommas boy who has hard time being entertained on your own. You think chick wants some dude who will hang on to her like shit to shoe on a hot summer day? NO! She wants someone who can have fun no matter what. If you need someone to complete you or you're lonely alone - get some hobby. Go out meet people. I know its hard, you don't want to. You want to be in a relationship. But guess what? Fuck it... IF you get back together it would be waste of your time. NO WOMAN IS WORTH GOING BACK FOR IF SHE DUMPS YOU. None. I don't care what you say. I don't care what she thinks. I don't care how good she was to you or in bed or whatever. If she didn't find any good reasons to stick around with you first time around, by taking her back you'll be the proverbial dog that gets kicked but still runs to his master when he calls.
FUCK HER, get over yourself, find some hobby, jerk off, run around, get stoned, GET A FUCKING LIFE AND GET OVER HER. The moment you get yourself together, chicks will flock to you, even if you're one hell of an ugly mofo. As long as you're not a dick, can hold your own, have some sense and sense of humor - you're as good as golden.
Sorry if some of it is harsh - but I speak from experience and like I said above... read it again if it don't make sense.
P.S. SHE WILL (IF SHE HASN'T ALREADY) DO ALL THE DIRTY THINGS TO SOMEONE ELSE THAT SHE DID TO YOU. OH, YOU DON'T THINK SO??????

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Apr-15-2004 02:21
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mezzir
BEES?

Registered: Nov 2002
Location: assachusetts
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i know you think you're being all helpful, but for CHRIST SAKE lay off the fucking crisitism. you know absolutely NOTHING about my life, aside from what i shared in my first post, and all I said i wanted was just perhaps some sympathy, i was mainly doing it to get some feelings out.
and now here comes you, sharing a nice vivid story about how i should go get rebound action by taking advantage of some random chick, yeah sounds fucking great you numbskull.
| quote: | | If you need someone to complete you or you're lonely alone - get some hobby. Go out meet people. I know its hard, you don't want to. You want to be in a relationship. But guess what? Fuck it... IF you get back together it would be waste of your time. |
and while we're making sweeping generalizations based on nothing but a few strange personal experiences, i'm going to assume you've never been in a relationship where the other person means something besides the fact that she has a nice warm place to stick your dick when you get horny
i'm not saying we had true love or anything like that, but for shit's sake i stated that its been two days and i'm breaking a 4 month routine, and let alone the fact that its a relationship, even if it was a friend moving away, things are going to be weird for a little bit
and one other thing, if we never invested anything in relationships besides 'the one', the one that we were meant for or w/e you believe in, then wtf would we do with the rest of the time? as for now, i've found the best i've ever had and i'll be damned if i'm just gonna sit and get over it in a day
so pardon my french, CynepMeh, but fuck you.
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Apr-15-2004 02:34
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CynepMeH
Let me wash your Apple!

Registered: Oct 2002
Location: Miles away from ordinary...
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| quote: | Originally posted by mezzir
i know you think you're being all helpful, but for CHRIST SAKE lay off the fucking crisitism. you know absolutely NOTHING about my life, aside from what i shared in my first post, and all I said i wanted was just perhaps some sympathy, i was mainly doing it to get some feelings out.
and now here comes you, sharing a nice vivid story about how i should go get rebound action by taking advantage of some random chick, yeah sounds fucking great you numbskull.
and while we're making sweeping generalizations based on nothing but a few strange personal experiences, i'm going to assume you've never been in a relationship where the other person means something besides the fact that she has a nice warm place to stick your dick when you get horny
i'm not saying we had true love or anything like that, but for shit's sake i stated that its been two days and i'm breaking a 4 month routine, and let alone the fact that its a relationship, even if it was a friend moving away, things are going to be weird for a little bit
and one other thing, if we never invested anything in relationships besides 'the one', the one that we were meant for or w/e you believe in, then wtf would we do with the rest of the time? as for now, i've found the best i've ever had and i'll be damned if i'm just gonna sit and get over it in a day
so pardon my french, CynepMeh, but fuck you. |
dude... you're a pathetic loser. That's all I got to say. I had a relationship with a girl for 3.5 years - we were best friends, of all things. Break up was a mutual decision. Took me over 2 years to get over it. Guess what - makes you one hard core mother******. I think I lost a part of me in the process. Sorry I can't give you a nice big hug and let you cry on my shoulder. But for every story you got for me, I bet I can top it 100X. Guess what... YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE THAT YOU WILL CONSIDER "THE ONE". You will then remember my words. Until then.... forgive my crude german "Fuck you too" 
Happy now?
P.S. Don't take it personal - I'm sure your suffering and sharing is very near and dear to you. Sad you don't have close friends to give you support in this time of need and you got to share it here with bunch of strangers. Some of whom are assholes like... me.
Later... hope u'll feel better soon.
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