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insideout
Junior tranceaddict
Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Houston -- TX TA #28
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| quote: | Originally posted by Trance Nutter
Dude, go for it.
Don't do what I have done many times and miss your opportunities. Grab it with both hands, or else you will never know. That is a much worse feeling than a rejection.
If you're friends or whatever, if you make a play (don't overdo it) and it doesn't work, chances are she will say something like "You're a nice guy and all, but lets just be firends."
As one of my mates says, those who procrastinate masturbate.
Honestly mate, just do it, but try not to do it in front of anyone else in case it doesn't work. You are 95% assured she won't tell you to go stick it. |
Ditto.
Whatever her response is, you can benefit from it. If she gives you a chance, then you get the girl. If she "just wants to be friends", you're a stronger, more confident person in the long run who is willing to take risks.
One bit of advice -- you have to have confidence in your actions and decisions. There's nothing wrong with seeking help on a forum, but decide on your own what to do. Confidence, not arrogance, is very attractive to girls. Oh, and make her laugh.
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Jun-09-2004 14:41
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freshBlueO2
tranceaddict in training

Registered: Jun 2004
Location: Bismarck, USA
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Ok, here's my advice. Most of the time girls don't really like the guys who like them. You got to win them over buy first being their friend. Take her out on a small date. "wanna grab a bite to eat? I'm buying." Slowly get to know her. Unless you know 99.9% that she like you in the smae way, don't give any feelings out her yet, you might scare her. Over time do some nice things for her. And buy all means, don't share the thing you like with her. show her you. Like games, take her to an arcade, or play games at her house, etc. Play her music on the guitar if that your thing, offer to help fix her car if that's your thing, take her window shopping, etc. It's not all about flowers and candy right now, It's about introducing YOU to her. If she like you back, she'll fall for that. If not, she not worth your time anyway. Once that hurtle is covered, then you can move to romantic.
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Jun-09-2004 15:05
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Fatality
tranceaddict in training
Registered: Feb 2004
Location:
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advice? i don't think u need advice, but i was in the same situation.
i liked a boy but we were only good friends. 2 mounths ago he moved in other country and i think we will never meet again. yeaterday my ftiends told me, that he loved me but was afraid to talk bout it. fuck, it's a great pity, we could be together...
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Jun-09-2004 15:13
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Sean Walsh
JAGERMAESTRO
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: Downtown Vancouver
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1) You don't love her; you're infatuated. Get to know the difference between the two of them sooner rather than later, as it'll save you from a lot of potential problems in the future =P
2) If you spout off how crazy you are about her and how you "love" her, chances are it'll make you look like a desperate loser and scare her away.
3) All that said, you don't have much to lose. Ask her out, worst case scenario is that she'll say no and you won't spend much time with her thereafter. While this may seem like a bad situation to you now, it is way better than the alternative of never being more than "just friends" with a girl you wanna be with.
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"When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading."
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Jun-09-2004 15:57
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