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Originally posted by TranceLuver4evr Am I thinking too much?? What should I do now? Everything was going great and the chick was giving u high hopes......then "boom"......it looks like it's all over. Anyone been in the same situation b4? I'll keep this updated as the day goes (if anyone is interested)

You just need to be more proactive. The same thing happened to me but I chopped her up and threw her into my trunk before she could reject me.

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Originally posted by Mr. Pink This girl seems like a pain in the ass, mon.

Are you a Jamaican in disguise????

listen to me right now...anyone who has this problem...

i've been in the same situation. and i pushed away a wonderful woman doing it. someone who at one time really loved me but couldn't handle all of the bullshit that i put her through.

i'm NOT gonna make that same mistake again. i know the way you think...its the same way i would think...you always think about the worse case scenario yes? you always take everything said and over-analyze that shit until you convince yourself that the worse case scenario you just dreamed up is true. well, i have news for you...if you keep pressuring this girl then you're already gonna lose. so just save yourself the 2 years of bullshit and wake the fuck up. its not the girls problem...YOU have the problem. its complete insecurity as someone said. you need to find a way to gain confidence in your life or you're gonna keep repeating this until you end up alone and miserable.

i'm not gonna ruin another possibly wonderful relationship worrying all the fucking time...it really is a waste. don't do it.

yet the foolish jason can't read a pm

Dude, go to a gym. Lose a few pounds, maybe gain a few, or just do whatever you want to do in order to free your mind of brooding over it. It is universal truth: if a girl is interested in you, even mildly, you will sense her interest. She will make calls and do whatever in her power to establish and solidify a relationship.
Of course you can always sit watching the phone, worrying and stressing yourself to a point of idiocy. But what's the point?
Relax, life is beautiful.

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Originally posted by TranceLuver4evr I've been seeing this chick for a month now... ...We usually talk to each other once a day

Holy shit dude

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Originally posted by Omegasox What Diginut said. Getting worried after not hearing from her over one day is ridiculous. Just chill and let what happens, happen.

actually....like I said on the post, last time we talked was Wednesday nite. And now it's what??? Monday???

anyways....

thanks for everyone's advice.....I'll take the "sit back and chill" and "whatever happens, happens" appoach

Last edited by TranceLuver4evr on Jul-05-2004 at 04:48

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Originally posted by Vigilante Are you a Jamaican in disguise????

hahaha kids....

well ill be darned. This thread has given alot of GOOD advice..im shocked

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Originally posted by Vigilante Are you a Jamaican in disguise????

only on tuesdays, mon

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