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| quote: | Wow! You're asking a girl out via email? Sweet... also, very sheepish. The only reason she wrote you back is because you've known each other for ages.
Do not write her. It's that simple. Phone up, meet her and _then_ ask her out.
Only contact is email... BS, you like her, therefore you _see_ her sometime during the day, and that is sufficient enough to ask. |
Hmm... I dunno how she's interpretating it, but from her side i'm not actually asking her out, just asking if she wants to do something over the summer. Don't get me wrong...i'd much prefer to ask her in person or even over the phone, but at the moment i don't have her phone number and the chances that i'll see her are very low because school's finished for the summer.
| quote: | Anything written, either email, text, or postal can be used as evidence. Basically later on our feelings towards the person may change (possibly due to rejection or a break-up) & no matter how much we deny that we had any feelings towards said person, the letter will tell all.
Also I believe that you should never run foolishly after women, he said his piece, now he should back off & let her do some chasing (women like confidence in a man, not desperados who chase after them pleading,begging etc). |
I'm not ashamed by my feelings for her though, so i can appreciate what you're saying but surely i'm the one losing out by not letting her know... and finding out how she feels. Another thing, what happens if she just plain out missed it? If i then don't say a thing for months and then she tells me she had feelings for me a while back then... well you'd know how it'd be. Basically what have i got to lose by trying again?
| quote: | | btw good luck with whatever happens goonerjack |
Thanks 
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