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Linx_da_cat
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Registered: Mar 2001
Location: in a nutshell

quote:
Originally posted by insecurity
DON'T SEND TEH LETTER


let this fad go will you?

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insecurity
that was close.....



Registered: May 2003
Location: stuck in a London traffic jam

quote:
Originally posted by Linx_da_cat
let this fad go will you?



I would but if you think about it, there is so much truth within such a simple statement.

Anything written, either email, text, or postal can be used as evidence. Basically later on our feelings towards the person may change (possibly due to rejection or a break-up) & no matter how much we deny that we had any feelings towards said person, the letter will tell all.

Also I believe that you should never run foolishly after women, he said his piece, now he should back off & let her do some chasing (women like confidence in a man, not desperados who chase after them pleading,begging etc).


btw good luck with whatever happens goonerjack

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goonerjack
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Registered: Jan 2004
Location: London, England

quote:
Wow! You're asking a girl out via email? Sweet... also, very sheepish. The only reason she wrote you back is because you've known each other for ages.
Do not write her. It's that simple. Phone up, meet her and _then_ ask her out.
Only contact is email... BS, you like her, therefore you _see_ her sometime during the day, and that is sufficient enough to ask.


Hmm... I dunno how she's interpretating it, but from her side i'm not actually asking her out, just asking if she wants to do something over the summer. Don't get me wrong...i'd much prefer to ask her in person or even over the phone, but at the moment i don't have her phone number and the chances that i'll see her are very low because school's finished for the summer.

quote:
Anything written, either email, text, or postal can be used as evidence. Basically later on our feelings towards the person may change (possibly due to rejection or a break-up) & no matter how much we deny that we had any feelings towards said person, the letter will tell all.

Also I believe that you should never run foolishly after women, he said his piece, now he should back off & let her do some chasing (women like confidence in a man, not desperados who chase after them pleading,begging etc).


I'm not ashamed by my feelings for her though, so i can appreciate what you're saying but surely i'm the one losing out by not letting her know... and finding out how she feels. Another thing, what happens if she just plain out missed it? If i then don't say a thing for months and then she tells me she had feelings for me a while back then... well you'd know how it'd be. Basically what have i got to lose by trying again?

quote:
btw good luck with whatever happens goonerjack


Thanks

Old Post Jul-05-2004 12:13  United Kingdom
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goonerjack
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Registered: Jan 2004
Location: London, England

quote:
maybe it's because i just had a visit from a high school friend, who told me she loved me in high school . . and i liked her for year and years before i went for my wife


Just reading round the CORe... i know it's an extreme but i don't want that kinda stuff to happen

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R.j.
Di piú! di piú! di piú!



Registered: Feb 2004
Location: L, TX, USA
Re: Re: confused...

quote:
Originally posted by mto
Fuck the bitch.


lol how blunt, yet funny


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Spad
wise sage of the forest



Registered: Jun 2001
Location: Chesterfield ,UK

I don't want to be a ****, but she can obviously read coz she replied to your other questions. She ignored that one for a reason.

edit: fucking hell you can't even say **** anymore

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trancebrat
Terry Bones' wife



Registered: Oct 2003
Location: San Antonio, FL & Frameries, BE

quote:
Originally posted by goonerjack


And that's another thing... girls and the use of the word 'love, '...... what does it actually mean?!



There's a difference between saying "I love you" to someone and saying "I'm in love with you". I love my family and friends. I do tell my friends...especially my best friends...that I love them. For me to say to someone "I am in love with you" that is saying a lot. You can think you are "in love" when in actuality it is lust or infatuation. If someone says "I love you" it shouldn't necesssarily scare someone away. They could honestly mean it.

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