oh thats a reasonable age. i mean you guys are married and able to support the baby; i just dont know. are you guys newly married? have you been married for a few years? she might not want a baby just yet, perhaps she wants to enjoy the marriage for a bit without kids. that is the only thing i can think of. i mean i am female, and i just dont understand it. you DO have a say in it, but i have no idea what to tell you to say. but dont give up if you truly believe in it.

personally, and no offense here, it is a bit irresponsible to not have the baby. you have the means to give the baby a good life and are a good age etc. all things are right for having a baby, just seems a little selfish to me. i do believe in abortion, but i feel at a certain point, you should take responsibilty for your actions.

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Originally posted by Technaut my sister had her kid on saturday and that made me an uncle

well congratulations!

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Originally posted by Technaut my sister had her kid on saturday and that made me an uncle

Heh, me too!! Well, she had hers last Friday. Welcome to the club.

As for Enferno, christ man, what a predicament. 26 is the right age to have a child, I would say. If you've got a house and a decent steady income, that's about as ready as anyone will ever get. Sounds to me like she's just getting cold feet. I mean, it's a daunting task to bring up a kid, but my sis is only 19. She had a few worries I'm sure, but with a little reassurance from our family, she had the baby, no troubles.

I think it's probably the same here. Just tell her that you think you're ready and that you'll both make very responible parents. I mean, you're all set up for a child, which is more than a lot of other couples can say, and that must go some way to prove how ready you are. Give her a bit of time, and with a little more encouragement she'll see that she's ready too. Good luck!!

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Originally posted by Mattsanity Damn man. You shouldn't of married her in the first place. That's my future plans when I'm at the age where should get married. Being single makes your life better.

yeah..good insight there

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shit man, that fuckin sucks... I have no advice. I'm totally against it, but I'm hoping for the best for you.

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Originally posted by DiMethGuy i hope you have a good attorney

my post from your other thread makes even more sense now

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Thats harsh....a kid is nothing to fuck around with,..THE HELL WITH ABORTION!!....good luck..dont know what to tell u,,,Streakfury hit it on the head though.. COnfort her and let her know shes ready...

BTW...Streak. What did your sis name her kid..??

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As crap as it sounds, she called her Aylisha Jayd. Talk about a common-as-muck mother trying to give her kid a posh name (and failing miserably).

Ah well, it was her choice. Cute baby though.

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Originally posted by enferno doesn't think we are ready. we have plenty of money coming in, a house, i work full time and could support us easily . . i just don't understand

Wow. I assume you guys discussed having children at some point before getting married. I am totally against it especially if the person is a married adult, but that is just my opinion. I'm sorry that this is happening to you. I can't begin to imagine your frustration. I hope things work out for you.

what is her family's take on it?