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Originally posted by SportTrance Most people in this world are miserable. Half the miserable people ive met got themselves there. As long as they dont shit on your parade, let them be, its their life, not yours

Exactly. I have some acquaintinces that I don't really spend a lot of time with anymore and I'm sure that they don't understand why. It's because everytime I see them or speak to them everything they say and do is negative. They drain me. That's why I hate the negative posting on here. It gets old. My everyday life has enough of it. I don't need to come on to TA and read it too. I decided a long time ago to eliminate as much negativity from my life as possible. I got rid of my ex. I moved. I ended some friendships. Now I strive to surround myself with positive people. I don't care how lame that seems to some people. My life is better because of it. My friends are all wonderful people. I am not the happiest person in the world, but that is only because of finances. I love my family, friends, my pets, and definitely my boyfriend. I love the friends that I have met off of TA. And...of course I love music. Without it I think I would feel lost.

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Originally posted by trancebrat Exactly. I have some acquaintinces that I don't really spend a lot of time with anymore and I'm sure that they don't understand why. It's because everytime I see them or speak to them everything they say and do is negative. They drain me. That's why I hate the negative posting on here. It gets old. My everyday life has enough of it. I don't need to come on to TA and read it too. I decided a long time ago to eliminate as much negativity from my life as possible. I got rid of my ex. I moved. I ended some friendships. Now I strive to surround myself with positive people. I don't care how lame that seems to some people. My life is better because of it. My friends are all wonderful people. I am not the happiest person in the world, but that is only because of finances. I love my family, friends, my pets, and definitely my boyfriend. I love the friends that I have met off of TA. And...of course I love music. Without it I think I would feel lost.

wait...

epiphone (spelling?)

the reason that we don't talk as much as we used to is because i'm negative sometimes (example today you said you could make a list of the bad things i say about myself) and you are tired of hearing it and trying to block me out

that's ok...it's understandable...but gimme another chance amber...i can be positive!!

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Originally posted by trancebrat Exactly. I have some acquaintinces that I don't really spend a lot of time with anymore and I'm sure that they don't understand why. It's because everytime I see them or speak to them everything they say and do is negative. They drain me. That's why I hate the negative posting on here. It gets old. My everyday life has enough of it. I don't need to come on to TA and read it too. I decided a long time ago to eliminate as much negativity from my life as possible. I got rid of my ex. I moved. I ended some friendships. Now I strive to surround myself with positive people. I don't care how lame that seems to some people. My life is better because of it. My friends are all wonderful people. I am not the happiest person in the world, but that is only because of finances. I love my family, friends, my pets, and definitely my boyfriend. I love the friends that I have met off of TA. And...of course I love music. Without it I think I would feel lost.

WOWOWOWOWOOWOWOWOWOWO...ditto on 100% of that...minus the boyfriend part.

FUCK DRAMA...there's no place in my life for drama...life's too fleeting as it is

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Originally posted by SportTrance lol

Finally the one post I make that is serious and someone decides to laugh at it, well don't I feel special.

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Originally posted by DiMethGuy WOWOWOWOWOOWOWOWOWOWO...ditto on 100% of that...minus the boyfriend part. FUCK DRAMA...there's no place in my life for drama...life's too fleeting as it is

I think sometimes we hit an age or a time in our life where we say enough is enough. I subjected myself to chaos on a daily basis. There were times that my life was in such a downward spiral due to all of the drama that I doubt that I could have told you my middle name. Now if there is any drama it better be because I caused it!

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Originally posted by Floorfiller wait... epiphone (spelling?) the reason that we don't talk as much as we used to is because i'm negative sometimes (example today you said you could make a list of the bad things i say about myself) and you are tired of hearing it and trying to block me out that's ok...it's understandable...but gimme another chance amber...i can be positive!!

Oh boy. Quote me. I never said I was tired of hearing it. I only said you are negative about yourself because you are. Even off of TA you are hard on yourself. You know you are.

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Originally posted by trancebrat I think sometimes we hit an age or a time in our life where we say enough is enough. I subjected myself to chaos on a daily basis. There were times that my life was in such a downward spiral due to all of the drama that I doubt that I could have told you my middle name. Now if there is any drama it better be because I caused it!

damn can I relate...if I wasn't in such a fux0red condition girl I'd love to talk to you like on a couch and u can be my shrink and all my friends suck and drama drama drama

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Originally posted by trancebrat Oh boy. Quote me. I never said I was tired of hearing it. I only said you are negative about yourself because you are. Even off of TA you are hard on yourself. You know you are.

i just have high expectations is all


but i shouldn't be so negative all the time...i get tired of hearing it myself...and i don't wanna distance myself from great people like yourself because of it

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Originally posted by DiMethGuy damn can I relate...if I wasn't in such a fux0red condition girl I'd love to talk to you like on a couch and u can be my shrink and all my friends suck and drama drama drama

Well...it has been since May that I last saw you.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller i just have high expectations is all but i shouldn't be so negative all the time...i get tired of hearing it myself...and i don't wanna distance myself from great people like yourself because of it

You are not going to lose my friendship because you fail to see the good things about yourself. I am talking about the people that think their life sucks yet they take no action to make changes to better it. The ones that are always seeking others to pity them when they honestly don't even have it that bad. They find the negative in every situation and when something good happens to other people they can't find it in themselves to be happy for them. Or the people that are constantly talking shit about other people and always gossiping.

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Originally posted by trancebrat Well...it has been since May that I last saw you.

I know I know...but I have no insurance now and your psychiatric prowess doesnt come cheap

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