sex changes everything. and thats sucks.

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Have anal sex with the ones you love.

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I had sex w/ my gf like the 2nd time we saw each other, we've been together for a year now. We bwned 2 years ago but it took us longer to realize were were in love(we each had seperate relationships when we first met and then luckily lost them at the same time, it helped that we were the only trance lovers that we knew as well)


Mind you I did have my fair share of issues with what I had done but I wouldnt trade it for anything now that it has all happened. I think early sex could potentialy screw things up, or in some cases its the only chance you get and if u wanna keep the girl you must take it.

I say live a little and do some fucking, woot.

I dont think so! but thats just me!!! it helps u realize how compatable u are early on i think...

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Im Kai Tracids Future WIFE!!

If you are looking just to purely satisfy your sexual appetite then sure go for it. If you think that this person is relationship worthy why dont you get to know him or her first before sharing or getting to such a level.

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My Space

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Originally posted by callme I've always meant to ask this....who the fuck are you? I mean i have never heard of you or the 5 friends you have on your myspace. Official info : chokeonit

Dude... whatever happens, just don't hit her, and you'll be fine.

That is my advice to every relationship thread now.

Yes, but only if you or your partner is an idiot.

And in that case, you should neither be having sex, nor be in a relationship.

so long as you can apreciate the rest of the relationship more than the sex, it shouldn't get in the way. although in my past experiences it has wrecked the relationship, but i think that was more down to me or the person i was with.

it was a while before me and my fiancee had sex, and we have the strongest relationship i have ever known. biding your time definitely has its benefits

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MUGGETS

it definitely adds another dimension. dont overanalyze and just go with the flow. Another one of life's pages in the book.

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Originally posted by DJ E-s*it screw up the WHOLE relationship? Meaning when u like this girl and had sex before mutually agreeing on being bf/gf does make u feel dat she might be doing this all the time or she is easy to get? Whenever i like a girl and if we have sex too early dats it for me. Im not gonna be with her for long. People should just take things slower, nowadays we are skiping steps in a relationship i think..Always jumping into the "sex" thing before movies...chat on phone..etc...and i think the best thing in a relationship is having the tingling feeling when u see someone and heart beating like crazy when u try to go hold a girls hand for the first time, or kiss for the first time...but time has changed............

this is exactly what happened to Serge and I, and we stayed together for almost 2 years. If I could go back though, I would have waited, taken it slower, done things the "traditional" way, but that's knowing what a great guy he would be. Sometimes it's better to get the sexual tension over with. But I totally agree with you-there's nothing better than having that first kiss after you've had that longing crush for months. It comes down to how capable the two are at making it work.

I lucked out-I became close w/ Serge over time, but never once did I feel awkward. It was like there was love there before love <---hard to explain

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My love will go up in flames for you...

i've only had 2 girlfriends in my life, and both times we waited for sex a lot longer than the other girls i've been with/slept with.

2 months for one(first gf)
2 weeks (second gf).

but now i dont usually even wait a week, third 'date' should do it.

i don't believe in "early relationship" sex, but if it happens, it happens.. life happens in it's curious ways.. it doesn't matter if you are a slut/whore or a total drunkard every night, and wake up the next morning not know what the hell you did the other night.. it all depends on how you handle the relationship with your mate.. either as a special mutual bond between two people or just a booty call to fill your needs when you want some...

that just my opinion...

sometimes sex leads to more sex, then you can't handle your sexual tendencies anymore, and start doing it with a tree...
please people don't be this way...

keep your "thing" in your pants until you are ready to handle it's seeds...