One particular ex of mine I am friends with.

We broke up about a year ago, and was a pretty clean break as we didn't speak for about 4 months. She met a new boy this year and things were looking good for her, and I was really happy for her, and he was heading to Europe for work purposes for a while. So she visited him and fell pregnant.

Being the ncie guy he was the having a baby issue turned him from sensitive nice guy to panicked playboy that doesn't want to come within 10,000kms of the baby, or the mother. So she is stuck with a big tummy and no friends as most of them are party animals, and she is now a home body.

So I've been a pretty good friend and gone along to doctors appointments with her and chat on the phone when she is struggling with things. I can't imagine how tough it must be to bring up a baby on your own. Its the combination of losing much of your independence, the committment of having some to be responsible for 24 hours a day and the notion of dating being a much more challenging experience.

It can be a problem with girlfriends when you are friends with your ex, as I usually put on the yellow flashing lights when dating someone that is close with their ex, but I'm honest with all contact as I think this is the best way.

Most ex's however seem to get really keen when you get a girlfriend or things are going really well. Ex sex can be really hot and almost revengeful on occasion, and when you've picked up new tricks in the meantime it gives a good opportunity to head fuck a little. Usually I have little interest in bring back up the past, as you have been there and done that so you shoule move on.

You really don't want to catch exgirlfrienditis, which is a condition where your future relationships and state of mind is permanently effected by being trapped in the negative rollercoaster which is falling in and out of love with someone whilst being put through a heart grating machine as you continue to go back for more pain and mental punishment as you try to understand why great love does not always equal a great relationship.

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Originally posted by whiskers yeah, he got played.

Fucken L! I got HOSED!

well, cept she gave wicked head, but when ure a hoebag, thats ure top quality on ure resume!

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Originally posted by kamil Fucken L! I got HOSED! well, cept she gave wicked head, but when ure a hoebag, thats ure top quality on ure resume!

just think about how many cocks she was sucking while you were at work! she had to get good at some point..

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Originally posted by kamil Fucken L! I got HOSED! well, cept she gave wicked head, but when ure a hoebag, thats ure top quality on ure resume!

"cept"? "ure"? what language are you speaking?

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Originally posted by {b.s.e.} just think about how many cocks she was sucking while you were at work! she had to get good at some point..

*shudder*

i moved to toronto, so later on into our relationship it became long distance, so her nasty ass (eventhough shes fucking hot) couldnt keep her legs shut.....

it disguists me, serioiusly. one of these days im gonna pay her a visit at work (still the same minimum pay bullshit job shes got) and bitch slap her all the way back to immigration and send her back to slovakia.

god i fucken hate her.

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Originally posted by kamil HELLS FUCKING NO! My ex is a fucking SLUT! Fucked 8 guys in less than a year, WHILE BEING MARRIED, and lead all of them to beleive she actually loved them! FUCKING WHORE!!!!!!!!!

by "ex" do you mean "ex-wife?"

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Originally posted by whiskers "cept"? "ure"? what language are you speaking?

cept = except
ure = your/you're


its called cyberspeek, ya noob.

ps. noob = newbie

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Originally posted by kamil *shudder* i moved to toronto, so later on into our relationship it became long distance, so her nasty ass (eventhough shes fucking hot) couldnt keep her legs shut..... it disguists me, serioiusly. one of these days im gonna pay her a visit at work (still the same minimum pay bullshit job shes got) and bitch slap her all the way back to immigration and send her back to slovakia. god i fucken hate her.

don't send the letter.

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Originally posted by kamil one of these days im gonna pay her a visit at work (still the same minimum pay bullshit job shes got) and bitch slap her all the way back to immigration and send her back to slovakia.

admit it, you bought her over the internet.

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Originally posted by kamil HELLS FUCKING NO! My ex is a fucking SLUT! Fucked 8 guys in less than a year, WHILE BEING MARRIED, and lead all of them to beleive she actually loved them! FUCKING WHORE!!!!!!!!!

Nasty.

That stuff can play extreme havoc with your mental space.

Why bother getting married if you are that way inclined?

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Originally posted by kamil cept = except ure = your/you're its called cyberspeek, ya noob. ps. noob = newbie

it's called "lamespeak" where i'm from.

look at my registration date / postcount and you'll see who's the n00b here. pwn3d lololo!!!111 l4m3r kthnxbye

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Originally posted by DJ Silhouette Yeah - I broke up with an ex back in the fall of 2001. A year later at the end of summer of 2002 while dating another broad, I ran into the ex, and started occasionally chatting with her. A year later I was married to The Ex. And now a year after that, still couldn't be happier.

And good stuff, Tobias. Has she had the baby yet?

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