How old are you & her.?

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Originally posted by Floorfiller definitely do some major thinking before you choose to move back to PR...

yeah.....truly, i know the best thing for me is to move on.

but my mind really doesnt want to.


and jonsun, im turning 22 soon, and she is 19

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Damn, Javi. Sorry to hear that shit happened. I wish I knew what to say, man.

Your still young enough where if you do move & it doesnt work out you can easily bounce back. Like FF was saying im sure the cost of living is less in puerto rico than in the U.S. even though pay is less. You obviously have very very strong feelings for this girl so my advice is play with the idea of moving back to peurto rico after graduation. From what your saying on your feeling towards this girl its worth it. But im 27 & have also been in love with what I thought was the perfect girl for me many times & it always doesnt work out since people change including yourself.

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Also it seems a mian goal in life for you was to get a degree in the states & your achieving that. So maybe follow your heart now.

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Originally posted by jonSun Also it seems a mian goal in life for you was to get a degree in the states & your achieving that. So maybe follow your heart now.

point well taken...

thing is- she distinctly told me NOT to do that haha.

she didnt want to be the reason why i changed my plans of building up a career here in the states.

Plus- now she's not talking to me. I hear she's bummed out, but i think she's attempting to put a mental&emotional boundary between her and I.

which sucks cuz i miss her too much.

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Originally posted by Mr. Pink point well taken... thing is- she distinctly told me NOT to do that haha. she didnt want to be the reason why i changed my plans of building up a career here in the states. Plus- now she's not talking to me. I hear she's bummed out, but i think she's attempting to put a mental&emotional boundary between her and I. which sucks cuz i miss her too much.

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Originally posted by Mr. Pink bla bla bla.... i need a rebound BAAAAAAAD

Heh

I just chatted with you on this topic a few minutes ago... I'm not going to retype it all, but you'll be okay. Like I said, in a way, be glad for the distance because it'll help you two get over each other. It'd be even harder to break up if she was right there all the time. If it's meant to be, it will be, Javi.

/caringnicenun

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Originally posted by Mr. Pink point well taken... thing is- she distinctly told me NOT to do that haha. she didnt want to be the reason why i changed my plans of building up a career here in the states. Plus- now she's not talking to me. I hear she's bummed out, but i think she's attempting to put a mental&emotional boundary between her and I. which sucks cuz i miss her too much.

yeah...i'm sure she doesn't want to be the reason for you moving back. and i'm sure she is hurting just as bad as you so that's why she is trying to put the block up. i dunno...maybe you should just move on man...it might take time, but you'll get over her...

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Originally posted by Floorfiller i dunno...maybe you should just move on man...it might take time, but you'll get over her...

everytime i think of some amazing memory with her...im happy for a second, then sad that those will never happen again.

and everytime i think of something negative- like her finding another guy, or her forgetting about me......i cant even begin to explain the emptiness i feel.

moving on is most definitely what i need to do, but doing it is so hard. And yes time will help, as time always does..... but this was a relationship that was so right that the thought of it ending, from her being everything in my life to her being but a fleeting memory, is probably one of the hardest facts i have had to face in my life.

sorry for the whiney bullshit, folks.

but im usually not like this.

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she but i can also remember a time pink when you posted about how you liked this other girl at a party or something (and you felt bad about it of course)...but that right there should tell you that your life isn't over. i mean...you WILL find another amazing woman to date...you got too much going for you to not...

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Originally posted by Floorfiller you WILL find another amazing woman to date...you got too much going for you to not...

i was at this party on saturday and i was completely obliterated.

Im watching a game of beer pong and peeps are dancing on all sides of me. My back faces this one chick and she softly starts to back into me while dancing. Im talking to this guy and the guy says "looks like some one is gettin some action", cuz this chick just keeps backing into me and looking at me. She was cute too!

I spazzed out and did nothing hehe

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