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Originally posted by tribu It's not like it was always like this. When I was in high school, I was majorly outgoing, had no problem talking to girls, and was able to pretty much date who i wanted. Im not sure what changed, but sometime between my first or second year in college, everything blew up in my face and I hit a major wall. I cant really identify any one major event or self-realization, but everything changed, and I cant seem to act like I used to. It's really annoying, and incredibly self-destructive, at best

I think I know what happened.

omg log out and eat ur c00kiez.co.uk.com.ca.bc.gov

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Originally posted by tribu It's not like it was always like this. When I was in high school, I was majorly outgoing, had no problem talking to girls, and was able to pretty much date who i wanted. Im not sure what changed, but sometime between my first or second year in college, everything blew up in my face and I hit a major wall. I cant really identify any one major event or self-realization, but everything changed, and I cant seem to act like I used to. It's really annoying, and incredibly self-destructive, at best

Don't worry about it man, you will get over it soon. Try meeting some new people and changing your enviroment. What i mean is, you dont have to ask some girl out on a date.. just meet some new male and female friends to hang out with. Maybe the new enviroment will bring back the old you. Sometimes we all need change. Everyone goes through what you're going throug. My best friend is kinda going through a same thing last few months.

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Originally posted by tribu It's not like it was always like this. When I was in high school, I was majorly outgoing, had no problem talking to girls, and was able to pretty much date who i wanted. Im not sure what changed, but sometime between my first or second year in college, everything blew up in my face and I hit a major wall. I cant really identify any one major event or self-realization, but everything changed, and I cant seem to act like I used to. It's really annoying, and incredibly self-destructive, at best

did you turn gay?






didn't think so...so get dem laday's!!!!

Dude...go to a party. Get drunk...and make sure all the girls get drunk too.

Then you can do whatever the fuck you want.

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Originally posted by Clovis86 Dude...go to a party. Get drunk...and make sure all the girls get drunk too. Then you can do whatever the fuck you want.

My man!

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you do know that by asking someone out you stand nothing to lose, dont you?
if so (truthfully) - you dont have a problem
if you dont, which is prolly the case.. then re-evaluate it all, see what you have to lose, decide if you really care about it... and just flow

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Buddy, you think it might just be that you're waiting for bigger signs from girls that they dig you? Like...you need some more signals to gove you extra confidence? That happens to me alot.

But I dunno...a girl turning around to smile and talk to you...thats a pretty good fucken sign...

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Originally posted by ******** Seplling don't demonstrate intelligence and educatoin - knowing does.

its called fear of rejection.. simply cured by alcohol. Have a cup of courage for breakfast and you'll be ready to rock


I've also noticed I have big balls when im rolling.

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* "Are you guys TAs?" and they'd reply back with "No, I'm on E." Haha

if a girl is talking to you and you don't have any previous friendship with each other or through someone else...she wants you to give her the bone!!


note: she might also want the bone in similar situations to those mentioned above...

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Originally posted by e*motion I've also noticed I have big balls when im rolling.

Hell yeah

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Originally posted by ******** Seplling don't demonstrate intelligence and educatoin - knowing does.

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Originally posted by Clovis86 Buddy, you think it might just be that you're waiting for bigger signs from girls that they dig you? Like...you need some more signals to gove you extra confidence? That happens to me alot. But I dunno...a girl turning around to smile and talk to you...thats a pretty good fucken sign...

That might be it, but this girl was pretty hot, and I just dont see what shed want with me. Plus, after class, everyone is around and I just feel odd striking up a conversation in front of my classmates. Id guess it was a good sign, but she seems like a nice person, and I can't imagine she wouldnt have a boyfriends...

Bah, these are the type of rationale I go through when Im thinking about making a move at all. I just think that I should put relationships out of mind for awhile and just let things fall where they do. Do the important things like graduate, get a job, work out, and have some nice things, then start looking....

Alcohol and drugs are only a semi answer for me. I hate drinking, so that almost surely kills that. I dont mind rolling but Im pretty poor at the moment, and that really isnt an option either. I dont really know.