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Random hookup/person I don't care much about:
Turn Ons
1. funny, charismatic, personable (gives me his sole attention and knows how to talk to me to get me to like him, even if it's lies - this is more important than looks, as it can make you look very attractive even if you're not)
2. looks
3. doesn't give a damn, does crazy stuff
Turn Offs
1. doesn't make a move when I want him to, doesn't get hints
2. cheapass
3. bad dancer (if in a club)
Long-term/marriage:
Turn Ons
1. takes care of me and cares about me, support
2. intelligence, things to talk about
3. humor, wackiness
Turn Offs
1. bad manners, prejudiced, sexist, homophobic etc.
2. unmotivated (big one!)
3. doesn't call
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