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This sort of thing happens to all of us, and the most natural reaction is to take it personally, and think that they other person is better, and it hurts your ego. After that it doesn't even matter if you like the person you just want to prove that you are really cool and fun.
But its important to realise that no-one will get 10 out of 10 girls to like them, nobody. Once I took a girl out for drinks and she really liked me, and she asked to stay at my house that night, and then I went to the toilet and got some more drinks and I came back and she was kissing another guy. That stuff hurts, but honestly its important not to give anyone your time if they don't treat you with respect and they like you back.
Its important to realise that these type of jealous, angry, hurt feelings where you think you need to prove something to the other person is a road that leads to unhappiness. These type of feeling are what can lead some guys to become stalkers. Its important to be happy that you found out that the person was not into you and find someone that is. If you get attached to people that don't give you respect you will never be happy.
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"The first stage of the great adventure has concluded happily, and here I am installed in Mexico, although I have no idea about the future" Che Guevara
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