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Originally posted by Wicked Neo i whole heartedly agree with ABT, a guy hitting any girl is a BIG no no, in the majority of cases us Guys are bigger and stronger than our GF's and could inflict a lot of pain and suffering, NO body has the right to do that to anyone !

I couldnt disagree more

I know this is a tangent, and maybe ill create a new thread, but why does everybody think that hitting a chick is so wrong? The way I see it that not hitting a chick for that only reason is plain and simply being sexist.

Now I wont hit a chick for no reason, ie the only reason I would ever strike a girl would be in good fun, in kinky sex, or as retaliation for hitting me.
Some chick hits me for no reason, she damn well better expect to get smacked in return! Say she(or anybody) has a reason to slug me, ill take it and eat my own shit, but if there isnt a good reason, then that person is gonna get whats comin to them, no matter what sex they are.

Oh..and another thing I do if some chick hits me 4 no reason, is ask if she believes in equal rights among sexes. If she say yea, she deserves a shot, if she says no she deserves a shot for that, but I wont hit her.

is that complete gibberish to anybody but me?

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it makes sense but i still wouldn't hit a girl

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Originally posted by AnotherWay83 there's no need to over-analyze this, it's a well accepted fact that chix dig guys that r jerks to them or mean to them, i guess they think it makes guys more macho...it's chic logic i guess

yeah, and when they get broken-hearted they hate all men, no difference.
Schopenhauer said "Woman is an animal". she isn't, but sometimes her logic seems to be primitive enough to deserve that comparison.

it makes the guy more macho... yeah, many chix fall for that. not the best, tho.
as ABT said, he might have had a bad night; and some of U must not prove looks are all that matter. they are so little of importance, as it is only nature that left us the way we look. we, however, are the sole responsibles for what's inside, soul and mind.

there are so many relationships that are as strong as a spider's web, I never understood those. Y bother, lose time with someone who means nothing whatsoever? hurting him and not getting any farther (emotionally speaking) yourself. life gives us the choice of love - hence superior feelings, high emotional states and the kind - or emptiness - and all which that brings. doing as mentioned above... keeps us in the second category.

I'm sorry, I guess I am being rather influenced these times. but all for the best of it.

"Crash and BURN"

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Originally posted by cweb are women. i mean tonight I was at aparty and there was something I really hate: A guy standing by his girlfriend doing nothing but standing there and looking like a fool while all them others are dancing including his girlfriend. And he looked like he could eat children (->very angry) all the time. And this girl was really cute, and he just an ugly bastard. And while I was dancing my ass off to get her attraction she choose that fucking idiot over me. i meran he is not rich or something like that and havs nothing I couldnt give here. And he yelled at her after she pushed him away because some guy wanted to walk by them (the supid boyfriend shithead didnt realised that). Why do women stand by men who baehave like shit? Sorry I'm a bit loaded and the moderator can delete this post, no problem, but im really sick at the moment and had to write that down...She was so cute and deserved a better boyfriend than him (me!! )

LOL I just wanna say that I am a pretty plain lookin dude and have a drop dead stunning GF ... I can't dance for shit when I've had a few beverages either, I just stand there sort with my eyes half shut, rocking back and forth ... and my girl is flexy as hell, a real good dancer and goddam beautiful when she dances, and I know all the guys in the room are checking her out, and they're pissed off because she loves me and is dancing with this fuckin ugly uncoordinated fool

I'd never dream of cussing her or laying a finger on her, at the end of the day it doesn't bother me at all if she talks to other guys or even dances with them, I know she loves me and she's coming back to mine when the party is over. My theory is that guys who get aggro with their girls are basically insecure people with low self esteem, they have to be all aggressive and view all contact with other guys as a threat, because their insecurity won't let them accept that a woman might actually love them and want to stay with them out of choice

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Originally posted by j_spot I couldnt disagree more I know this is a tangent, and maybe ill create a new thread, but why does everybody think that hitting a chick is so wrong? The way I see it that not hitting a chick for that only reason is plain and simply being sexist. Now I wont hit a chick for no reason, ie the only reason I would ever strike a girl would be in good fun, in kinky sex, or as retaliation for hitting me. Some chick hits me for no reason, she damn well better expect to get smacked in return! Say she(or anybody) has a reason to slug me, ill take it and eat my own shit, but if there isnt a good reason, then that person is gonna get whats comin to them, no matter what sex they are. Oh..and another thing I do if some chick hits me 4 no reason, is ask if she believes in equal rights among sexes. If she say yea, she deserves a shot, if she says no she deserves a shot for that, but I wont hit her. is that complete gibberish to anybody but me?

I agree with Jspot 100% here. Under given circumstances it would be ok to hit a girl. For example if she hit you first, is extremely hysterical, or out of line. There is a degree to how hard you hit her though. Something less than fight-provoking would be ok in my eyes. And Jspot, I love the "equal rights" analogy

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Lol, most girls I know would beat the living shit out of me, haha.

Yeah, I'm all for smacking a woman in retaliation. *grin*

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Yeah, just reverting back to the "women falling in love with jerks thing", I have to say that in my experiences, among my social circle, there is an awful lot of truth to it.

Now I'm not going to into any detail about what exactly happened (because I don't think that a public forum, viewed by thousands, is the place to go into it) but in my close group of friends, basically all of them, except for me and maybe one or two more, in this group, have been fucked around by a woman at least once over the past couple of years (though some of my friends believe that I have been messed around, though I would disagree and, again, I'd rather not get into it here anyway).

I'll just say this: the nice guy approach just don't work. From what I've seen, they loose repsect for you, walk all over you, then move onto some rich wanker with a small penis and big porsche, get completely screwed around and then wonder, genuinely, why they can't find a nice guy. Now I'm not saying this because I'm a chauvanist, or because I'm otherwise sexist or that I don't like women, it's because I've seen it happen time and time again. They do have some sort of pathelogical addiction to jerks.

Maybe it is the macho thing, or a lack of self-respect, or a preponderance of masochistic urges or something, but it does happen and I've given up trying to understand why. The girls that I know are so caught up in their own little-world, mired in this almost decedant self-importance and I've grown tired of it. Either I'm just not friends with the right girls, or maybe I just need to find an older woman who's matured passed all these frustrating little head-games, but after my last girlfriend I made a vow to myself that I would never date for the sake of dating again. If I meet the right girl then fine, but I'm not going to risk my self-dignity just to satisfy the whim of some silly little girl who just needs another notch to boost her ego.

Anyway, I didn't mean to come across this bitter and twisted, it's just what it has come to. My friends and I have become so much closer because of it, and as it stands now, mainly through our own choice, only two of us are currently in a relationship: one who wants out, and the other who is being led around on a leash and doesn't realise it (and I ain't going to tell him for fear of getting a bollocking ).

I think the pendulum has swung too far to be honest: it's now the men who are being used and made to feel inferior, yet they can't reproach anyone for it without being labelled a sexist. Too many women just lack a conscience in this regard and think that men don't have feelings or any sort of sensitivity and can - nay, deserve - to be just walked over.

Anyway, I'm not talking about all the women in the world, just most of the ones that I know apparently. Good luck to all of you in relationships though, I can only hope that they turn out better than any of the ones I've witnessed.

Sorry for ruining your thread.

ohlala, thx for the response! There are too many of those "standing-guys" these days. I mean, sometime the girl will get frustrated by that. And it annoys me to hell, because there were too many peolple and this guy was just standing, go away for the dancing folk!!!
As for hitting women. I would never hit a women until she gets really out of control and attack me with iron rods or something like that (fortunately not happened yet ). these "ticky-tacky" boxes dont bother me.

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Originally posted by cweb ohlala, thx for the response! There are too many of those "standing-guys" these days. I mean, sometime the girl will get frustrated by that. And it annoys me to hell, because there were too many peolple and this guy was just standing, go away for the dancing folk!!! As for hitting women. I would never hit a women until she gets really out of control and attack me with iron rods or something like that (fortunately not happened yet ). these "ticky-tacky" boxes dont bother me.

yet I will not change. I will stand for what I am, no matter the consequinces. someone is there... (maybe right now, God how I wish!!!)

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