Of course I agree w/ the general senitment here... her mom is just gonna hafta get over it.

I think i would definately confront my parents... but i dont keep secrets or hide shit from my parents, be that relationships, drugs, sex, or anything else.

i cant stand dealing w/ hiding shit. it eats away at you. personally, im just saying id confront my rents. if they really hated a gf of mine, thats something id want to deal with. i woudlnt want my gf ever taking that brunt of their dislike for her (i dunno, maybe my parents would act rude to her, or whutever), so even if i wouldnt do it for myself, id talk to my rents for my gf

especially on a matter like. they wont accept him bc hes asian... whut the hell is that!?!?!?!?!?

i hope everything works out for your friend Playa... it is such a great feeling when you know your significant other is loved by your loved ones!

-Jem-

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Originally posted by dEsidEL how do you know the girl isn't black ?? are we assuming something?

Ever astute, Emery, like the Harshini...

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she should front up to da moms and say yo yo mama you better recognizeeee yo!

seriously, the mother cannot control the daughter's life. she needs to get over her prejudice bs before she loses a daughter.

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Originally posted by malek always stick to your own kind in relationships... less headaches, yes even in 2005.

ever heard of the saying "love is blind"

which reminds me ... i need to start giving my mommie hints that she better not even think about arranged marriages for me ...

its amazing how often this stuff happens in this day and age still.....


Love is supposed to be unconditional right??? Thats what I thought, anyways......Its only unconditional if the person finds it truly worth allt he "hardships" of bringing somebody different home. If they dont, it wasnt unconditional afterall....

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It's so sad that even now, some parents still have issues with other races. I'm lucky my parents are totally cool with me dating people outside my race, because if they weren't i think we would have a really huge problem.

I really feel for your friend, although i didn't really understand the first part of your post... the whole relationships with the aunt, the cousin, the cousin's friend's aunt or something... didn't really get that lol Has your friend's mom outright told her she couldn't date the guy or is this just what someone else heard and then repeated to her? If she only heard about it, she should confront her mom and bring the issue out in the open. It's better for her to be clear about everything.

IMHO, if the mother really had such a big problem with it she would have straight out told her daughter. I'd find out if her cousin (or whatever that relation is) is right first before making assumptions that could be potentially harmful to their mother-daughter relationship.

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Originally posted by raveed which reminds me ... i need to start giving my mommie hints that she better not even think about arranged marriages for me ...

Now that is a situation I wouldnt want to be in !

damn asians with their ching ching chang chong ching. like HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLO WE CANT UNDERSTAND U! Go Back Where You Came From!!! White POwer!

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Originally posted by raveed which reminds me ... i need to start giving my mommie hints that she better not even think about arranged marriages for me ...

LOL!! TOO LATE!!! She's been thinking about that since you were BORN!!! LOL!

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Originally posted by fayraree LOL!! TOO LATE!!! She's been thinking about that since you were BORN!!! LOL!

Man, arrange marriages... Im glad thats not one of my worries in life!

To everyone out there with a significant other, i hope yall are able to find (and maintain) that peace and happiness we all want to be blanketed in when around that preson!!

~Jem~

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Originally posted by Playa24_7 Alright, one of my friends is going out with an asian guy. Her moms had problems with some of her bfs in the past, but those didnt matter she said, this guy does. She said to her, she thinks hes a really nice guy, really nice. Today her cusin told her that her mom was talking to her mom. On the phone she said she thought he was really nice, a really great guy, but under the circumstances she cant like him (because hes asian). Her cusin told her not to tell her mom because then they know it came from her cusin. So her mom doesnt know my friend knows, and now she doesnt even want to face her mom tomorrow. Shes totally pissed, totally upset, her mind is like totally blown her mom can say that. She doesnt know what to do. What should she do??

Dump him.... I mean, shit, he's asian.... what is she thinking.... Dirty fuckin' slopes!

On a more serious and less offensive note.... if her mom is being diplomatic about it and isn't causing a noticeable friction then she should just continue as she has been. If her mom thinks he's a good guy she'll likely get past the fact that he's Asian (since when is there something wrong with being Asian... I keep forgetting who I'm supposed to hate.... I must have missed a memo) in time.

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

she should have asian babies.