yea, it always sucks when a guys is on the friends ladder but thinks he is on the sex ladder. Its always disappointing to him, but there is nothing you can do. If he don't wanna eb friends oh well.

Marie, you should know better than to post this in the CORE...what were you thinking??

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Sorry to break it to you but the truth is this guy was never really a friend to begin with. He may have acted like a friend but he was likely doing the common guy move of pretending to be a girl's friend in hopes that it will lead to sex. A lot of guys do this. I would suspect that the majority of any woman's male friends have some measure sexual motivation. This is not to say that he didn't/doesn't actually care for you, however, he has likely always wanted a romantic relationship with you. When he kissed you he was taking his shot to move your "friendship" to the next level.... it failed, now he's retreating. Chances are your "friendship" will dwindle to the point that it is non-existant in the months to come.

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Originally posted by trewqy WTF is wrong with u chicks>?>> If we hang around u... at the end of the day we really want ur poonani!! Theres no such thing as.. we're just "friends" in our vocabulary. Tom Hanks puts it best.. "Women and Men can never be friends, the sex part just gets in the way"

lol



hey don't u mean billy crystal in that movie with meg ryan? i don't think that was tom hanks...

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

You didn't do anything wrong. He loves you and you just think of him as a friend. Could you imagine if the roles were reversed? You were madly in love with him and he just wanted to friends. Could you hang out and ignore your feelings?

slylee is right thats billy crystal in harry met sally. geeze get ur quotes right fuckin amateurs

Nah, you didn't do anything wrong. He just thought you thought of him the same way as he did and is hurt and probably a bit embarrassed about the whole thing. He'll either get over it and realize you're a good friend or he'll be stubborn and write you off, to which you count ur lucky stars you got rid of someone like that who's not worth your time.

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thanx for your replies everyone

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Originally posted by Slylee hey don't u mean billy crystal in that movie with meg ryan? i don't think that was tom hanks...

Yep that was billy crystal.


And about the guy situation, he is just feeling rejected right now. Situations like these are very delicate, especially if you want to keep the person as a friend and even then its still hard for the other person that has the feelings because the feelings may continue or ever grow even though the other party is not gratifying them.

Call him up and ask to see him, you need to make it clear that you would like to be his friend and there is nothing wrong with him and you think he is a great guy but you dont see him as anything more than that and try to break it to him gently while still telling him good things about himself so he doesnt feel any worse than he does now.

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Originally posted by trewqy WTF is wrong with u chicks>?>> If we hang around u... at the end of the day we really want ur poonani!! Theres no such thing as.. we're just "friends" in our vocabulary. Tom Hanks puts it best.. "Women and Men can never be friends, the sex part just gets in the way"

i believe Chris Rock put it better : " women get to have platonic friends. Men don't have platonic friends, we just have women, we haven't fucked YET ! (...) i've got some platonic friends, but they're all by accident; every platonic friend is someone i was trying to fuck...made a wrong turn somewhere...and ended up in the friend zone "

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Originally posted by h0tsweetbabyd0l it would be impossible for me and I to be together

poor you... no hands/arms?

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