As a rule, I almost always end the conversation first. That communicates the idea that "I don't really NEED to keep talking, I decide when we're finished talking, I have other stuff to do (doesn't really work at 4am though)". This will intrigue her and make her curious.

What you did is just leave it up to her to end it. Then it made YOU look bad because otherwise you wouldn't be complaining about it. Think about if it was you who ended it suddenly, maybe then she would be thinking about YOU, which is what you want.

Attraction often increases when you're apart, and one person is thinking about the other. Do things that will make her think about YOU instead of the other way round. Things that make her curious, or even better, actually feel attraction.

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Originally posted by Tech0rz As a rule, I almost always end the conversation first. That communicates the idea that "I don't really NEED to keep talking, I decide when we're finished talking, I have other stuff to do (doesn't really work at 4am though)". This will intrigue her and make her curious. What you did is just leave it up to her to end it. Then it made YOU look bad because otherwise you wouldn't be complaining about it. Think about if it was you who ended it suddenly, maybe then she would be thinking about YOU, which is what you want. Attraction often increases when you're apart, and one person is thinking about the other. Do things that will make her think about YOU instead of the other way round. Things that make her curious, or even better, actually feel attraction.

Don't do that shit too often... otherwise, they start feeling like you don't want to make time for them and that you're going to be too busy for a relationship.

Trust me... Fucked up pulling this one, once.

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she wanted teh action.

It's just the same as if she did it to him, you're just playing that card first. Be different to other guys. Girls go for unpredictable, as long as its in a way that creates attration. (Even though it may seem totally illogical to you).

Of course that advice was just a guide. It obviously won't work for every girl, just use your initiative and adapt it to your situation. Trust me if it doesn't work, you probably aren't doing it in the right way. If you want to take things to that elusive 'next level' successfully, you have to make it happen, and make sure she's primed for it.

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Originally posted by Theresa She was probably waiting for you to make a gaddam move on her, and finally got sick of waiting on your slow ass so left. That's my theory!

i agree with this...

You were too passive.

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Originally posted by Theresa She was probably waiting for you to make a gaddam move on her, and finally got sick of waiting on your slow ass so left. That's my theory!

Yeah that's what I was thinking too. Why didn't she make a move? Stupid double standards.

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Originally posted by Fundamental Maybe she just needed a shit.

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Originally posted by Aquarian Yeah that's what I was thinking too. Why didn't she make a move? Stupid double standards.

Yeah well thats the way it is.. we are supposed to make the 1st move.. i hate it, cuz i fear rejection.. so i hate making the move...

btu the few times the move has been made on me, i felt elated!

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Originally posted by dinoXpress Yeah well thats the way it is.. we are supposed to make the 1st move.

That's part of the reason I don't date. It's a bunch of retarded rituals that should've been phased out hundreds of years ago. That's how it worked in society before - men and women had roles and they played them. Now women have all of men's rights but they still want the special treatement. Bullshit I say.

Females are freaking hypocrites!

So many females complain that in this day and age we should all be equal in the job place as well as home and in society but in romance they ALL live by old standards:

Men have to foot the bill when going out( it's changing but it's still the most common thing to do )
Men have to make the first move ( walking over and meeting the girl/kissing etc )


I'm sick of having that responsability.

No that doesn't make me a lesser man but it surely makes me angry one with all this female bs.

They insist on proclaiming their independence yet deep down inside all they want is to be rescued and taken away on a wild horse by her prince.


BTG girls are the most two faced gender
Become gay if you don't want to deal with this garbage.
I'm considering a switch myself

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Originally posted by jdat Females are freaking hypocrites! So many females complain that in this day and age we should all be equal in the job place as well as home and in society but in romance they ALL live by old standards: Men have to foot the bill when going out( it's changing but it's still the most common thing to do ) Men have to make the first move ( walking over and meeting the girl/kissing etc ) I'm sick of having that responsability. No that doesn't make me a lesser man but it surely makes me angry one with all this female bs. They insist on proclaiming their independence yet deep down inside all they want is to be rescued and taken away on a wild horse by her prince. BTG girls are the most two faced gender Become gay if you don't want to deal with this garbage. I'm considering a switch myself

ahaha woooo haaaa . I can feel that steam seeping through my speakers.

ladjAL;KDJFAF I'll send recorder and blank tapes!!!

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