in all seriousness though:

1. tell her she's gorgeous when she has no make-up on.

2. wake up next to her and just smile and say how lucky you are.

3. if u can, arrange it so that she catches you talking to one of your guy friends about how hot/beautiful you think she is, but don't set up a whole fake scene, just if she's in another room or something, talk loudly so she can hear.

4. give specific compliments (kinda hard if you're a guy i know), stuff like, oh your hair looks so good when you have it like that, or, wow that's a great color on you, it brings out your eyes.

little stuff like that, but don't cheese it up too much

oh and if she really is gorgeous and she doesn't think so, then you've definately picked yourself an awesome modest girl.

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Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit My girl doesn't think she's pretty. Common source of concern for women, I know, but it does concern me as well. She honestly doesn't see it in herself. I want her to be happy and I want some advice from women (or men i guess) as to what can be done for a girl to make her feel pretty overall. Not minor things like saying you're beautiful casually and often, etc, I do that already. I'm wondering if there are/is anything that can be done to make this girl feel like she's a star. Yes, my C0Rwhore friends, she is a hotty, I'd just like her to know it. Any advice? oh yeah and - Things i wont do: 1. post pics 2. stfu 3. stick it in tha pooper 4. send tha lettar

serious answer?


mmm just be one night like. get ready we are going out. take her to a romantic dinner @ a nice place. be sponatnious. that usually melts the girsl

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Originally posted by Caela 1. Breast Implants

i definatley agree

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Originally posted by nchs09 serious answer? mmm just be one night like. get ready we are going out. take her to a romantic dinner @ a nice place. be sponatnious. that usually melts the girsl

dude you have no idea what you're talking about

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Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit i definatley agree

wtf no, i did not say that...

boob jobs are so crazy degrading, any girl that has to do that has some serious issues.

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Originally posted by allcentury18 dude you have no idea what you're talking about

do u want to go to the park with me? buttsekz?

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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On OOKA-OOKA ME NACHOS ME PRESS KEYS ON COMPUTER GOOD

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Originally posted by Caela in all seriousness though: 1. tell her she's gorgeous when she has no make-up on. 2. wake up next to her and just smile and say how lucky you are. 3. if u can, arrange it so that she catches you talking to one of your guy friends about how hot/beautiful you think she is, but don't set up a whole fake scene, just if she's in another room or something, talk loudly so she can hear. 4. give specific compliments (kinda hard if you're a guy i know), stuff like, oh your hair looks so good when you have it like that, or, wow that's a great color on you, it brings out your eyes. little stuff like that, but don't cheese it up too much oh and if she really is gorgeous and she doesn't think so, then you've definately picked yourself an awesome modest girl.

These are all things I do! She still questions and has doubts about herself though.

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Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit These are all things I do! She still questions and has doubts about herself though.

hm..honestly-is she beautiful to JUST you?

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Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit These are all things I do! She still questions and has doubts about herself though.

if you're a stuck-up and critical guy, you should remind her that. remind her how you always seem to find tons of shit wrong with other girls you've been with but she's so perfect for you. somethin along those lines...? idk im half conscious

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Originally posted by Caela hm..honestly-is she beautiful to JUST you?

pics or stfu

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has she thought this way for a long time? cuz sometimes girls go through phases...like "oh i look great" and then "oh i look like crap". if not, then it'll prob pass soon.

maybe she just needs something new, to spice up her appearance, just like a haircut or new haircolor...but just make sure u don't tell her to do something new.

go out and buy her a new shirt or something, it's always nice to get something new esp when your bf thinks it would look hot

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Originally posted by D-res if you're a stuck-up and critical guy, you should remind her that. remind her how you always seem to find tons of shit wrong with other girls you've been with but she's so perfect for you. somethin along those lines...? idk im half conscious

ummm, sorta. you're almost better to tell her you find her thoughts on this unattractive. this doesn't have to be mean, you can ask her the root of the feelings. discuss freely what brought them about, what needs to change and how both of your lifes can be better for it.

you can let her know what shes saying is affecting you, but that its also affecting your feelings for her. remember, this is more than likely a test thats not even aware of. think of it this way... a girl has to know shes with the best possible mate at any given time. THIS IS AN INSTINCT NO GIRL CAN OVERCOME.

knowing that, what do you think you are conveying?