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you know what the problem is ..
eharmony and other e-dating websites, p0rn movies, and "speed dating" has ruined our outlook on the concept of dating ...
the examples above has taught you that it is ok to date multiple people in a short amount of time . it also teaches you that love is quick and random, so you don't need to "get stuck" with someone for two weeks .. just get with a girl, bang her, sleep with her, and then scadaddle ... i am sorry, but this is how the world is today ... you go in and you go out ... there is no such thing as committment anymore ..
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oh yeah ..
"you're everything in the world to me ... you're my fantasy ... "
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well this is an easy explanation,
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Men and women have different biological roles in reproduction: women
produce a single egg each month, whereas men produce millions of sperm
every day.
This fact may not be news to you. However, this biological difference has
led to men and women to evolve different reproductive strategies… and so it
has a surprising influence on the sexual behavior of men and women.
Examining our differing reproductive roles explains the important reasons for
these behavioral differences.
A man has more sperm than he can get rid of and his goal from a
biological standpoint is just to replicate his genes as much as possible. It
would therefore make sense for him to impregnate every woman he could
because if any one child didn’t survive and didn’t go on to reproduce, it
hasn’t cost him very much energy at all. The lost energy is more than made
up for by the sheer volume he can achieve.
On the other hand, because women produce so few eggs (or
“reproductive units”), they end up investing a lot more of their time and
resources than that of the opposite sex. She must invest not only in the
production of one egg, but also in the long term: pregnancy, child-birth,
feeding, caring, etc. A woman has to value each egg very highly because of
how much energy she puts into it.
With so much at stake in each attempt at reproduction, a woman must
first choose her investment carefully. Secondly, she must also try to ensure
the success of every child she has.
Women have developed biological methods to maximize both the quality
of the men with whom she chooses to reproduce, and the odds that they will
help stick around and help protect her investment.
To make sure she gets the best “reproductive value” possible, women
have developed a number of barriers, twists, and turns designed to keep
“weak” sperm out.
Only the healthiest sperm will make it past her barbs, pitfalls, and
chemical blockades.
Though interesting, this is only one type of test women have developed
(a physical one). There are also the unconscious, psychological tests she
uses to determine your genetic value.
Women need two things.
They need great genes, and they need a mate who will stick around to
help raise the child. As we now know, these two goals aren’t always
achieved by the same man.
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from sperm wars & david d
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Which, all of those definitions can be used when speaking of love in a relationship context, but NOT vice versa. You're trying to prove your point by mixing contexts, and that's a no no. 
