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Originally posted by Fir3start3r don't let your friends try and convince you that you're being selfish, because you're not...

Honestly...that's the only thing on my mind. Cause I know for a fact if I talked to him; he'd say "go for it" without a doubt...cause I'd say the same if I was in his place and he was in mine.

dont ask him directly...try to find out how he would feel about u goin without him indirectly (i wouldnt be able to give u precise words not knowing his personality).

if u ask him directly, theres quite a high possibility he will say "yea sure...dont worry bout me" just for being a good friend. later on in life, hes gonna remember u going without him and bring it up as a negative point about u and u dont want that to happen

PS. if avb is the only artist u care about seeing, dont worry..avb comes here often, u can skip this one out. friends>parties

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Originally posted by evil_cookie Honestly...that's the only thing on my mind. Cause I know for a fact if I talked to him; he'd say "go for it" without a doubt...cause I'd say the same if I was in his place and he was in mine.

Then go!

Don't let your own mind build up some hypothetical guilt ruin both your nights.
Besides, you can go out together after he's out and he'll look forward to it more knowning how good the experience was for you.
He may be a little jealous sure but we all have had situations where we personally couldn't go to something we really wanted to; that's just life. But it certainly isn't the end of the world and there are LOTS of other good times to be had down the road, so don't worry bout it too much.

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thanks a lot for the feedback guys, I guess I just wanted to hear other people say/agree with what I really wanted to do anyway.

now i'm excited, it should be an awesome night!

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Originally posted by charmscars do you think your friend would want you to go? If you think it would offend your friend or he would be hurt by it then i would sit it out-- especially if everyone is going to go hang out w/ him on that day and you don't show up..but if your friend is anything like me, if I was sick and my favorite DJ was in town, I would want my friends to go.

talk to your friend in the hospital about it and that's the only person who's opinion would matter.

plus, unless everyone is planning to visit him that night and doing something special for him, then I'd really think twice. But if you're not going to go to Decandence and just stay home and do nothing, then I think your friend, if he's a good friend and big EDM fan, would want you to go out and like someone say, party enough for the both of you.

Try not to pay attention to what other people say - especially if they don't have the same appreication.

Think of it this way, if he's there all week or longer than expected (hopefully not), does that mean your other friends will stay in all week(s) and not do anything else "out of respect" for him?

u should party, just not at guv

beware of wetnap sniffers.

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