dude i feel the same, i personally cant stand going alone, i tried to for 2 years, now i go only if my friends go. otherwise its worthless


thats just me

P.S: i am moving to vancouver this week for good , so i can tag along!

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Originally posted by mylespower posting on TA in a local forum was a good step in the direction of meeting people

what he said


im a chick, so it was a concern for me to go to parties alone, at first. i met some people on TA, went out alone, met them, and now even though i technically go out alone, im never alone at parties cause there's lots of people that i know

you just gotta make that first step. say hi to us, and you'll be good for life

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Originally posted by apri_peel you just gotta make that first step. say hi to us, and you'll be good for life

What she said

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oh but are any of us really normal??

Hey elena - when am i gonna SEE you again?!
(hey we could be considered TA friends orignally! See it works!:P)

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hey i feel you nsamadi... im on the exact situation as you are... none of my friends like trance (and im pretty sure they wont go to this type of event) i dont really want to go to clubs all alone then feeling awkward and weird all night especially that i dont go to clubs very often...

im 20 and never been to any trance event so ive missed out on a lot and i really want to see tiesto and pvd next month!

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Originally posted by nsamadi Just wanted to know your options on this, Would it be awkward to go to an event alone. How do you guys usually go down to big events, with friend, etc...

i usually go with the gf to a club or party. when i was single, i would go to events with a handful of friends. but i would NEVER not attend a show if nobody wanted to go with me. its not like you and your buddys are going to make a circle on the dance floor and dance like a bunch of meatheads to radio rap... Then again, winnipeg isnt a very big city, and everywhere i go i always know a ton of people. then again, i'm just so damn cool. but aside from all that, i would definately say going to events alone is fine. ive done it a few times. you dont have to worry about losing your friends, or having to drive them home at the end of the night, or them leaving thier shit in your car...ect ect.

same situation! i never have a friend to go with me in the trance event, i just come to vanc 3 years ago and barely speak english but
yeah most of my friends dont know anything about electronic music, although i have some buddies to go with me in house music event.. but yeah its cool if u have buddies with u so u guys can share the taxi bill, so far it always cost me minimum 60$ to go to the rave alone (excluding the ticket)

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Originally posted by JVP oh but are any of us really normal?? Hey elena - when am i gonna SEE you again?! (hey we could be considered TA friends orignally! See it works!:P)

holy shit, julsie!! where have you been? dont see you at the gym anymore

oh and yes yes, julie and i met through TA

just dive into the community, i know it can be difficult to do, especially when it seems like everyone already knows each other, but once you do it, its a lot easier from then on

guys, stop being afraid of being 'alone'
sure you'll feel awkward if you just stand all by yourself in a corner. you have to make an effort in order to meet likeminded people, things aren't that easy in life, you gotta work for them

My first time to see Armin @ the Roxy, NYC back in '04 and brought a friend with me. We left before Remy finished his opening set cuz my friend wasn't "feeling" the vibe. From then on out, I go solo. If someone is coming with me, I let them know in advance I'm there until the end. So be prepared to take a taxi home if you want to leave early

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Well, first of all I just want to apologize for not writing back to my post in a long time, I've been kind of busy lately.

Just wanted to say thanks for anyone who wrote in, and I guess overall I need to get out onto the scene to meet the people who share the same interests in music.

So far I got PVD at Plush on the 14th set up. I'm going to see him and I'm so excited Hopefully I'll get to meet some really cool TA's there. See you guys there.

if i come out, i'll make sure to buy you a drink to make you feel a little more at ease around TAs