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Originally posted by Zeiter it's pretty weak from ur dad..not judging him though!

yeah, my brother thought the same thing. he was pissed. it's his step-dad and my real dad. but man, he let him have it tonight over the phone.

we must have talked for almost an hour; and he said that he could have understood our dad leaving when he [my brother] was in high school and was really just screwing around bad [ended up in juvie and everything]. and that would be a bit of an "Excuse"..."i can't handle your out of control kid".

but if he survived that....then it's kind of disappointing that he's doing this....now....some 15 years later.

my mom was uuber pissed too. she's like, "well happy fucking birthday to me!"

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Originally posted by Yan That's definitely not good. Hopefully your mother'll heal up soon and move on with her life. Finding someone new definitely helps in placing aside the past. Time heals all... sometimes. :/

well, this is her second husband. her first was a jackass who beat her and my brother [i wasn't around for this marriage].

so my dad [my bro's stepdad] is her 2nd. and she always said that she had to get through hell to get to heaven. and to have this man that she loved for some 27 years say that he doesn't want to deal with her anymore....that's a bit of a shock.

i doubt she'll ever remarry.

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Originally posted by tubularbills well, this is her second husband. her first was a jackass who beat her and my brother [i wasn't around for this marriage]. so my dad [my bro's stepdad] is her 2nd. and she always said that she had to get through hell to get to heaven. and to have this man that she loved for some 27 years say that he doesn't want to deal with her anymore....that's a bit of a shock. i doubt she'll ever remarry.

Marriage isn't the only option, of course.

Does she have any good friends to support her?

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Originally posted by Yan Marriage isn't the only option, of course. Does she have any good friends to support her?

one. the rest is family....which are all super suportive [thank God!]. i don't know how many people either of them have told.

Goodluck



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Originally posted by all-nite-freak EMO

lol, i know....totally the opposite of normal c0r stuff. but i've never had to deal/think about this type of stuff before, so just tryin to get perspectives/views

I seriously wish you the best man...i just dont want to start hearing poetry about cutting yourself...promise me that.

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Originally posted by tubularbills so my parents are getting divorced. ... but i'll just kind of start out asking if anyone's parents are divorced?

no, but i wish they were.

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Originally posted by Spacey Orange no, but i wish they were.

you know, my parents had problems before, when i was a senior in high school [5 years ago]. arguing and fighting and shit almost every day. like to the point where i DIDN'T want to come home from school.

but they worked it out and everything was fine. until now

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all-nite-freak I seriously wish you the best man...i just dont want to start hearing poetry about cutting yourself...promise me that.

oh yeah, won't be doing any of that. i'm not depressed or anything - just kind of confused and sad and disappointed.

Sorry to hear that.

I was in 4th grade when i got the news. I assume cause they didnt love each other anymore but about a month ago i got to thinking. I have all these unanswered questions, so i asked my mom again why they got a D and she said the same thing like always and i just stared at her, then she said my pops did something to my sis she didnt like. Now im not jumping to conclusions and would have never susspected my dad of doing what the first thing that comes to your mind in this situation. So i don't wanna know...

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Originally posted by gwrmarines Sorry to hear that. I was in 4th grade when i got the news. I assume cause they didnt love each other anymore but about a month ago i got to thinking. I have all these unanswered questions, so i asked my mom again why they got a D and she said the same thing like always and i just stared at her, then she said my pops did something to my sis she didnt like. Now im not jumping to conclusions and would have never susspected my dad of doing what the first thing that comes to your mind in this situation. So i don't wanna know...

my brother told me that he wouldn't be surprised if there was another reason. my dad w/in the past year had taken a few trips to go biking or hiking or see something different. my mom never went with because she basically couldn't because of the pain. but until he admits anything....i don't want to know.

a friend of mine, his parents got divorced because his dad had done a few things w/ his younger sister.....can we say "awkward"

oh, and ps,

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sorry to hear about that, SIR

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i keed i keed. i need to laugh a little right now.

yea well. my parents got divorced because my dad is gay and had gay affairs