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| quote: | Originally posted by idoru
I think what it all boils down to is how the parents handle the situation. Most parents are quick to say, "No, not in my house! I'm going to complain to my Congressman now!" I think that most kids (I say most, because there are always some kids who shouldn't be included) can be allowed to play such video games with parental guidance.
The parents need to step up and take responsibility for how their children react. They're the ones who should be teaching their kids that no, what you're playing isn't right, etc.
Kids will always continue to play these video games. Back when Goldeneye was all the rage, I was about nine. My parents hated the game, and I was not allowed to play it. What did I do? I went and played it at my friend's house where he was allowed to play it. Why? For one, the game was just fun. However I think the main reason I constantly did it was because I knew I wasn't supposed to be doing it. As a child, when you hear that something you want is being restricted, you only want it more. When my parents found out, they weren't happy. However once I showed them the game, showed them that you could turn off the blood and change the settings to make it more appropriate, they let us play it and consistently monitored us to make sure it didn't affect our behavior.
In short, blame the parents, not the video game makers. The fact that parents are so lazy as to demand legislation rather than take parental action is disgusting. I'll let my kids play video games. I'll teach them that violence is bad. The second I see an increase in violent behavior, I'll take it away and ground them. It's not that difficult of a situation to fix, as long as you pay attention to your kids. |
Very insightful. I really have little to add to what you said there since I hold these opinions myself.
The only thing that I'd like to emphasize is that sometimes it's even out of the parents hands (such as with the situation with your friend). Some parents will never find out about their kids' doings simply because. Debateable whether it's the parents faults for not being able to be in-tune with their children, really.
By the way, my kids will be playing the classics for the first 10 years of their lives. 
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