I agree with Fire999.Go with someone as a friend,too(preferably a VERY goodlooking girl to make the impact as powerful as possible )!She'll probably feel the way you do now,and if she doesn't,well then you should probably give the relationship a rest.Be aware that she might be playin' you.Don't let her do that!

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Well if you say nope then she will think you are too protective and obsesive, if you say go then this friend thing may become more. So go with her

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NOTE: it would be nice if the threadstarter would give some more details, just so we could point out better what your relation is and give a proper advice.

I mean: is this girl like one day break up, next day another guy, or is she like 'if you break up with me, I'll be down in the mood for the next couple months'.

if she is in the last category: let her enjoy, trust her. If she is in the first: uh-oh.

then again: I still like to know if you are going, and if not, WHY NOT??

'cos it would suck if you sit @ home JUST because she necessarely had to go with this other dude, and actually should have taken you. but if you have already arranged something with friends before this was known to you, and therefor she took someone else: big deal (ofcourse still no good that you didn't call of your meeting...dances like these can mean something to go to...)

so, for proper advise: DETAILS WANTED!!

(I feel like some relationdoctor or something LOL )(well, those people get paid pretty good...I think I'll stick to it for a while )

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I'd say fuck it.. if you can't trust her to be with your friends.. or with other people.. then your relationship is fucked, anyways why arent you asking her to this dance??

i never had a girl but if i did and if i goto the same school and she goes with someone else, that means she's dissing you in a way. I mean c'mon you're her boyfriend! so she goes with someone else?!?!...fuck it man.

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as kolkiewolkie said for proper advise you need to give more info, but my first impression is that you should drop her and move on. i think you should look at how you treat girls when you are seeing them, cus she obviously thinks she can walk over you, i think your relationship is over
but its up to you in the end, good luck man

i say just talk with her about it. it may not be as bad as it seems.... my friend HATES dances, and when he was with this girl she would always go with other guys for fun. I went with her one time.. its no big deal prolly. He just hated dances and she loved em. Aint no thang hopefully. G'Luck.

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tell that women to get her ass in the kitchen. Then while she is making you a pie you go to the dance with an ice pick and show her "friend" who the man is.

I would tell her your uncomfortable about it.
Most if not all of the school dances I went to seemed to be casual, hanging out, type dances - not very romantic, being with someone special, type dances. So maybe they are just friends. I dunno, trust plays a huge part in relationships, and if you dont trust her, then maybe somethings wrong, maybe you need to talk.

i dont get you guys..

see.. you guys say your understanding but when it comes to the situation you guys dooo the most stupidest thing..

first.. do you go to the same school with your gf ? if so do you wnat to go to the dance.. if not.. then whats the prob if so then tell her how you fell

if you dont go to the same school what is the prob like.. maybe you ppl live farther away from each other and she dont want to bother you with the trip up...

I agree with out TRUST you got NOTHING... my last bf he didn't trust me thats why i left him beacuse he got pissed every time i wanted to meet up with friends..

heres another point.. did she ask you first looks like she didnt' soo i'm betting shes hiding somthing.. and thats whats making youfeel unconfortable..

plzz someone PM me about this.. telliing me .. HOW you can care for some one and not trust them.. ? cuz if you turst you know she wont go off banging another guy..

in my opinion i think shes hiding somthing.. cuz well did she ask you first.. if she did then shes not hiding.. but if she went and asked the guy before asking you.. i would be a bit careful...

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Originally posted by jennypie
Because you're a filthy WHORE!

Id say.. find her best friend.. and take her to the dance..

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