Women cheat too, and they do it just as often as men.

The only difference is, they do it more discreetly.

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Originally posted by HardTranceProd Women cheat too, and they do it just as often as men. The only difference is, they do it more discreetly.

Perhaps I'm being naive, but I think they're more reluctant to do so, and it's usually a reaction to feeling neglected, being cheated on first, or some necessity they feel to "get even" or something (after that initial triggering incident, there's no define end to it). But that mostly applies to women who're ready to settle down/are married.

As far as young women go (I guess upto the age of 30 or around their early 30's or so), you're probably right.

Age and priorities make a difference. Priorities change with age.

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Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out— because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me— and there was no one left to speak out for me." -Martin Niemöller

Women can be trusted as they grow old and as long as you treat them good. My dad always use to tell me not to trust women. And this comes from a guy who cheated on hi wife, my mom, over 30 times. that is what he admitted and he had children with 12 of these women. Im glad he is gone. He wasn't a good role model.

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Originally posted by metalgearsolid Women can be trusted as they grow old and as long as you treat them good. My dad always use to tell me not to trust women. And this comes from a guy who cheated on hi wife, my mom, over 30 times. that is what he admitted and he had children with 12 of these women. Im glad he is gone. He wasn't a good role model.

Haha, interesting... So your father was a womanizer? One would think that he would "pass on" the genetic program for being a womanizer to you Do you consider yourself a ladies' man?

P.S. To Shaolin_Z: You are indeed very naive. 15% of American men are unknowingly raising children who are not theirs, according to official studies. Read the book "Sperm Wars", referenced above, for more info.

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Originally posted by shaolin_Z Perhaps I'm being naive, but I think they're more reluctant to do so, and it's usually a reaction to feeling neglected, being cheated on first, or some necessity they feel to "get even" or something (after that initial triggering incident, there's no define end to it). But that mostly applies to women who're ready to settle down/are married. As far as young women go (I guess upto the age of 30 or around their early 30's or so), you're probably right. Age and priorities make a difference. Priorities change with age.

From what I've read, men and women cheat about the same (men slightly more) when no children. When they have children in the family, studies have shown that woman is twice less likely to cheat because of the children.

Most men dont consider children when cheating, sadly ...

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Women look for quality, while men look for quantity.

Best looking / most socially stable man she could find

vs.

Most women he could have sex with.

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For most part.

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Originally posted by HardTranceProd Haha, interesting... So your father was a womanizer? One would think that he would "pass on" the genetic program for being a womanizer to you Do you consider yourself a ladies' man?

Far from it. I have only been in three relationships. My dad makes fun of me, he said when he was my age he had already dated over 12girls. He is quite open when it comes to talking about girls. Most times too open which would probably explain why I don't consider myself a womanizer. But these three gfs have been beautiful; to me, and that is what matters.

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Originally posted by HardTranceProd P.S. To Shaolin_Z: You are indeed very naive. 15% of American men are unknowingly raising children who are not theirs, according to official studies. Read the book "Sperm Wars", referenced above, for more info.

I'm familiar with it, and have heard about it from tathi before (I think?). I've heard/read several interesting quotes but haven't read it yet though. It definetly seems like an interesting read. I guess I'll be picking up a copy of it sometime soon.

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"First they came for the communists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a communist;
Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out— because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me— and there was no one left to speak out for me." -Martin Niemöller

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Originally posted by Magnetonium Most men dont consider children when cheating, sadly ...

Amen. That is the truth. Children to most men=not a worry they will still behave the same.

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Women look for quality, while men look for quantity. Best looking / most socially stable man she could find vs. Most women he could have sex with.

Not true for women. They mostly look for a guy they think is nice and has financial security.

Looks in a relationship matter more to a guy than a girl. I mean would you have sex with an ugly chick?

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Originally posted by metalgearsolid Not true for women. They mostly look for a guy they think is nice and has financial security.

I have to laugh at some of the comments read here. Look at you, 3 girlfriends, and you think you already know what "women look for".



What exactly makes you qualified to make these claims? The media? Your peers? Your culture?

A BIG LOL to "looks don't matter to women"

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Originally posted by HardTranceProd I have to laugh at some of the comments read here. Look at you, 3 girlfriends, and you think you already know what "women look for". What exactly makes you qualified to make these claims? The media? Your peers? Your culture? A BIG LOL to "looks don't matter to women"

well you it might be true.....Goddamnit why did you have to say that?!!!!!!!!

But trust me as they age most won't care about looks anymore.

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Originally posted by HardTranceProd P.S. To Shaolin_Z: You are indeed very naive. 15% of American men are unknowingly raising children who are not theirs, according to official studies. Read the book "Sperm Wars", referenced above, for more info.

Perhaps you missed the part where I basically agreed with you? What I implied was married women (I guess I should have also added "with children") generally tend to not do so unless you cheat on them first, or if they feel neglected/not appriciated/think their husband a wuss. That doesn't mean I said they don't at all, even if neighter one of those conditions holds true. Does my expanding on it help?

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"The Greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge." -Stephen Hawking
"First they came for the communists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a communist;
Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out— because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me— and there was no one left to speak out for me." -Martin Niemöller