Originally posted by Masonious
you win again dude - and nice move shoving the whole i figured out how to order pizza thing in my face. i tried that 4 and a half months ago and woke up with a Taiwanese transvestite but to Ygrene it's just, "anoother day in the life, noooo biggieee".
Jan-28-2007 19:46
denys envy
no scratch, no snatch...
Registered: Mar 2004
Location: falLAcy, CA
fucking... stop thinking.
/discussion.
Jan-28-2007 19:48
Arbiter
Naked Power Organ
Registered: May 2002
Location:
Re: I've been thinking...
quote:
Originally posted by eckmek
Discuss.
I'm gonna let you in on a little secret. Girls generally don't have a fucking clue what they really want. Oh, I'm not saying that they don't really like to receive gifts or praise - who doesn't? But the guys who give girls tons of gifts and constantly praise them are just fucking themselves because most of the time that same girl is going to end up fucking another guy on the side who isn't giving her any gifts and probably calls her a whore.
Let me put it to you this way: you have to look out for yourself first. If you're constantly bending over backwards for a girl, pretty soon she's going to think she's better than you and she can get away with anything. It's okay to give her some praise and an occasional gift - but keep it in moderation (it will mean more that way, anyway). What you want to do is to believe that this girl is lucky to be with you, and act accordingly. If you genuinely believe it, and you act like you do, then 99% of the time the girl will believe it too.
Jan-28-2007 21:49
distant
lights
Registered: Dec 2006
Location:
Re: Re: I've been thinking...
quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
I'm gonna let you in on a little secret. Girls generally don't have a fucking clue what they really want. Oh, I'm not saying that they don't really like to receive gifts or praise - who doesn't? But the guys who give girls tons of gifts and constantly praise them are just fucking themselves because most of the time that same girl is going to end up fucking another guy on the side who isn't giving her any gifts and probably calls her a whore.
Let me put it to you this way: you have to look out for yourself first. If you're constantly bending over backwards for a girl, pretty soon she's going to think she's better than you and she can get away with anything. It's okay to give her some praise and an occasional gift - but keep it in moderation (it will mean more that way, anyway). What you want to do is to believe that this girl is lucky to be with you, and act accordingly. If you genuinely believe it, and you act like you do, then 99% of the time the girl will believe it too.
+1
This thread sucks.
Jan-28-2007 21:54
shaw
RIP
Registered: Jan 2005
Location: Intergalactic Mimosa Station
Re: Re: I've been thinking...
quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
you have to look out for yourself first. If you're constantly bending over backwards for a girl, pretty soon she's going to think she's better than you and she can get away with anything. It's okay to give her some praise and an occasional gift - but keep it in moderation (it will mean more that way, anyway). What you want to do is to believe that this girl is lucky to be with you, and act accordingly. If you genuinely believe it, and you act like you do, then 99% of the time the girl will believe it too.
buying flowers for your girlfriend randomly which ends up making her super happy in return - 20 bucks
losing virginity with said girl - 5 bucks ( no she didn't get paid but fun stuff was involved and I'm not talking about a jimmy hat )
having your girlfriend take both of you out for her birthday only to realize she didn't bring enough cash to pay the bill ( and you don't have a penny on you as it was understood she was paying ) - priceless.
Jan-28-2007 22:08
medinaM5
supreme
Registered: Jan 2005
Location: Los Angeles
just punch her in the ovary
Jan-28-2007 22:13
Echo of Silence
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Sep 2003
Location: corner of the garden
quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
this disappoints me rob. i think everyone likes to hear that they are beautiful and appreciated...don't you think myra deserves to be told that? i know that actions speak louder than words, but sometimes it's just nice to hear it. women like to feel loved and pampered and appreciated. well, not ALL women, but a lot of them do...and i don't think that necessarily makes them high mainntenance at all.
and it goes both ways. when i'm involved with a guy, i make him feel like he is the only thing i ever need. i like to verbally express things like that. like if we're getting ready to go out, and my man comes out of the room all ready to go, lookikng and smelling nice, i'm always like, "damn baby you u look smokin...i'm gonna have to kick some ass tonight'
+1
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Jan-28-2007 22:20
CranberryJuice
In my Peanut Car
Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Le Mans (my new shithole) -France
quote:
Originally posted by jdat
having your girlfriend take both of you out for her birthday only to realize she didn't bring enough cash to pay the bill ( and you don't have a penny on you as it was understood she was paying ) - priceless.
Originally posted by Arbiter
I'm gonna let you in on a little secret. Girls generally don't have a fucking clue what they really want. Oh, I'm not saying that they don't really like to receive gifts or praise - who doesn't? But the guys who give girls tons of gifts and constantly praise them are just fucking themselves because most of the time that same girl is going to end up fucking another guy on the side who isn't giving her any gifts and probably calls her a whore.
Let me put it to you this way: you have to look out for yourself first. If you're constantly bending over backwards for a girl, pretty soon she's going to think she's better than you and she can get away with anything. It's okay to give her some praise and an occasional gift - but keep it in moderation (it will mean more that way, anyway). What you want to do is to believe that this girl is lucky to be with you, and act accordingly. If you genuinely believe it, and you act like you do, then 99% of the time the girl will believe it too.
That's some good insight, thanks Arbiter.
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quote:
Originally posted by teegee
sometimes, i sit on my hand until its numb and then masturbate...i call that a stranger.
Jan-28-2007 22:55
RandomGirl
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Jul 2003
Location:
Re: I've been thinking...
quote:
Originally posted by eckmek
You know how girls will always tell you that girls really like that "extra special attention" and that they love being told they're beautiful and they love getting gifts...
Whenever i hear that i think to myself "Do guys not like these things? Or is it just that guys don't get super fucking pissed when they don't get them?"
Discuss.
I think ALL people like to be complimented and treated nicely... women who get angry when they don't get it constantly are insecure bitches.
I think it should be 50/50. A woman should go out of her way to treat a man well just as much as a man should for his woman.
Jan-28-2007 23:07
Echo of Silence
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Sep 2003
Location: corner of the garden
Re: Re: I've been thinking...
quote:
Originally posted by Theresa
I think ALL people like to be complimented and treated nicely... women who get angry when they don't get it constantly are insecure bitches.
I think it should be 50/50. A woman should go out of her way to treat a man well just as much as a man should for his woman.
+1
(lol, all I'm doing is plus one-ing in this thread)
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