I've always been the long term relationship type of guy. And yeah, 4 months ago after my 3-year, it's been rough. I went through a lot of what's in that article. My mind tells me to enjoy the single life, but I miss all that comfort and low stress.
She was 13 yrs younger than I and women in their 30s just aren't what I feel.
I need a gf who's last name doesn't end with .jpg
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Apr-20-2007 14:54
trunks1022
supreme vicodin addict
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: forest hills TA #?
i mean if there's no chance the relationship's going to work it should be pretty easy to let go. i just got out of my first real relationship but i'm not really crying about it. just wasn't going to work.
Apr-20-2007 15:07
Chris Crossland
Duke Silver
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: London
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I dont really care.
It's not that easy jane i just cant leave him like that. My cd's are in his truck. It's going to take at least 4 or 5 more years of abuse and then we can end it violently.
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Apr-20-2007 15:13
Project-K
JD ëtictsile
Registered: Feb 2007
Location: Laval, Quebec
You really can't generalize with things like this, but for me at least, that was pretty much spot on. Probably the main reason why I'm so reluctant to get into any kind of relationship with women nowadays. Bad experiences make you bitter in the long run.
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Apr-20-2007 15:25
deejaymara
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Sep 2006
Location: 305
i think it makes sense what it says...
Apr-20-2007 16:49
Frenchie
life in technocolor
Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Intergalactic Planetary
I think it depends on the breakup and how it happened.
Most relationships fail because there is another man or women in the picture so it's not that hard finding someone else.
Apr-20-2007 16:53
OurManFlint
P(x) =
Registered: Feb 2004
Location: Seattle
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Originally posted by Frenchie
Most relationships fail because there is another man or women in the picture so it's not that hard finding someone else.
What about the person who got dumped, especially when it's the guy getting dumped, who always has a harder time finding another girl than a girl finding another guy.
Apr-20-2007 17:35
lücid
electric girl
Registered: Aug 2003
Location: NY
i agree.
i've gone through 2 big breakups, but in both situations i was the one who wanted to end the relationship, so maybe that's what made it easier for me.
with my first boyfriend, i can't even count the number of times we broke up and then got back together over the span of 5 years. i don't think either of us really wanted it to end most of the time, but it finally got to a point where what we were doing was just so ridiculous, and i think both of us knew the breakup was inevitable. after we broke up we actually still chilled and stayed friends... and he wasn't crushed until i told him i met someone new and that it was getting serious. i think he always hoped in the back of his mind that we'd get back together.
then the other one, i broke up with him after a year of being together because i was falling in love with a guy who was a really good friend, and he flipped the fuck out. definitely one of the worst experiences i've ever had to deal with.
i've gone through 2 big breakups, but in both situations i was the one who wanted to end the relationship, so maybe that's what made it easier for me.
with my first boyfriend, i can't even count the number of times we broke up and then got back together over the span of 5 years. i don't think either of us really wanted it to end most of the time, but it finally got to a point where what we were doing was just so ridiculous, and i think both of us knew the breakup was inevitable. after we broke up we actually still chilled and stayed friends... and he wasn't crushed until i told him i met someone new and that it was getting serious. i think he always hoped in the back of his mind that we'd get back together.
then the other one, i broke up with him after a year of being together because i was falling in love with a guy who was a really good friend, and he flipped the fuck out. definitely one of the worst experiences i've ever had to deal with.
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Apr-20-2007 17:56
lücid
electric girl
Registered: Aug 2003
Location: NY
quote:
Originally posted by Aristronica
HEY! Fembot opinions don't count. GTFO!
you broke my heart, Denys.
actually, now that i think about it... i'd probably fuckin' flip out and go all psycho if i got dumped by someone i loved. luckily i've never really had to go through that. i mean, even though the breakups i went through were very difficult, i was always the one making the decisions so i couldn't really get too upset about it. i always had to be the strong one who insisted that things were over, and there was no going back.
so uhhhh, RJT.. please don't dump me, or i'll fucking ban you.
Originally posted by lücid
you broke my heart, Denys.
he'll fix 'er right up!
Apr-20-2007 18:07
nchs09
Traceaddict in training
Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Inside your mum
iv had 3 real real gf's
1 time... i was moving so we had to break up.. it wasnt any fighting that brought this, i was hurt... but ok
2nd time... i got dumped.. oh man the feeling of "i wish i could havce her back" talk about a mindfuck... i was depressed for like a month. like they say, food doesnt taste the same, nothing feels worth doing etc.
3rd time... i was like "ehhh i dont think this is gonna work" i felt great and we remained friends.
i guess depends on what kind of breakup is what i am saying.
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