id like to also note that girls never approach me in the bar when im single.
Apr-23-2007 03:15
Lilith
Meowsies!
Registered: Nov 2000
Location: Maximum Security twilight home for cats
quote:
Originally posted by Theresa
I have NEVER experienced this protective/jealous feeling before, so I don't know whether I should let it bother me, or if it's a normal thing to get aggravated.
Yeah it's normal, behaving civilised, seething hostility, making a scene with lots of loud shrieking or kicking a chunk out of her ass is up to you (I can't fight worth a damn so I usually settle for seething hostility and dividing the conversation by being assertive)
Course the other half has to know what you're comfortable with as well.
Apr-23-2007 03:30
igottaknow
PerfectTeeth R4 Dinosaurs
Registered: Feb 2001
Location: The Future
I'm jealous of Theresa red hair.
Apr-23-2007 03:45
SolaceDj
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Feb 2004
Location: Ft. Lauderdale Beach, Florida
I say jealousy is part of life, you just have to learn how to go about discussing it with your partner, granted honesty is on your side.
I dont care how open you are...there is always going to be someone that comes along and makes that feeling come out of you...
Apr-23-2007 10:43
KilldaDJ
birth.school.trance.death
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: tranceaddict wants to know your location
i get jealous when im out with my girlfriend in the clubs and pubs when i see dudes talking to her, makes me wanna go over there and smash bottles over their heads and get violent
Originally posted by KilldaDJ
i get jealous when im out with my girlfriend in the clubs and pubs when i see dudes talking to her, makes me wanna go over there and smash bottles over their heads and get violent
but im a happy person really.
+1
i once really got into a fight, nothing too serious couple of punches here and there, gf told me that im stupid :[
well, afterwards she told me she was proud of me, but that im still stupid :[
Apr-23-2007 12:16
CranberryJuice
In my Peanut Car
Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Le Mans (my new shithole) -France
kind of wierd cuz before i used to be a very jealous person
now im with my new boyfriend it's different im not worry ,and he knows worry either about my feelings toward him
it's the first time for both of us we are involved in something that serious and we both feel confident about our relationship
and if in the worst case something happens....it's not by being jealous that i'll manage to prevent anything
theres different extremes of jealousy
i think i fall into the catagory of.... he can never speak to his ex gf again
otherwise he can do what he likes, within reason
Apr-23-2007 13:31
Lira
Ancient BassAddict
Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasilia, Brazil
I'm not really jealous, although my girlfriend felt really uncomfortable at times, because she wanted me to be jealous, and I just wouldn't do it... then I started to "look jealous" for her, but only because that's a way of showing her I care "in her language"
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Apr-23-2007 13:33
igottaknow
PerfectTeeth R4 Dinosaurs
Registered: Feb 2001
Location: The Future
quote:
Originally posted by CranberryJuice
kind of wierd cuz before i used to be a very jealous person now im with my new boyfriend it's different im not worry
i remember when you got jealous of jason and i
it was kinda silly but i remember i got jealous of my last gf when i saw old pics of her with in a short leather mini with a bunch of guys at a club before she met me.
Apr-23-2007 13:33
AndreaCKY772
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Mar 2006
Location: Near Boston, MA
i have never had a problem with my bf with this situation. and if some pretty girl was to talk to him, i would just sit back and observe. if she was being RUDE about it, blatantly being disrespectful then i would call her out on it and i wouldn't get jealous. it's actually funny when someone tries to pull moves like that because he/she is looking like an idiot. your gf/bf is wth YOU. call me crazy, that's just how i am.
one time this chick was trying to make some moves on him when i was right there and he was nice but he never flirted back, he just kind of ignored her. i was laughing on the inside. as long as your bf/gf doesn't act disrespectful to you about it, then i see no problems.
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AndreaCKY772. just. so. dumb.
Apr-23-2007 16:58
mezzir
BEES?
Registered: Nov 2002
Location: assachusetts
quote:
Originally posted by AndreaCKY772
i have never had a problem with my bf with this situation. and if some pretty girl was to talk to him, i would just sit back and observe. if she was being RUDE about it, blatantly being disrespectful then i would call her out on it and i wouldn't get jealous. it's actually funny when someone tries to pull moves like that because he/she is looking like an idiot. your gf/bf is wth YOU. call me crazy, that's just how i am.
one time this chick was trying to make some moves on him when i was right there and he was nice but he never flirted back, he just kind of ignored her. i was laughing on the inside. as long as your bf/gf doesn't act disrespectful to you about it, then i see no problems.
well put, although this is much easier to say when you're in a secure relationship and have been for a while