Originally posted by Floorfiller
ok some actual advice hehe...
try to maintain some time for yourself. problem with moving in together is there is no escaping the other person lol. maybe a night out with just your friends or something once in a while...
Bingo. Always make sure you have the opportunity to do what you want with who you want whenever you want/need to. Too much of a good thing is never good.
May-16-2007 05:54
Yan
fauxhawk
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Wano
Don't have sex with him.
May-16-2007 05:56
igottaknow
PerfectTeeth R4 Dinosaurs
Registered: Feb 2001
Location: The Future
remember to leave the seat up for him.
May-16-2007 06:03
Yan
fauxhawk
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Wano
quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
remember to leave the seat up for him.
Good one.
May-16-2007 06:05
Yan
fauxhawk
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Wano
Re: Re: moving in together
quote:
Originally posted by josh4
Yes, first thing you do move in all your stuff. When hes out one day rearrange everything so all your crap is everywhere and its a huge surprise when he comes back. Take down anything you don't like of his put it in a box and put it away in the closet.
Make sure all your girly toiletries take up all the space in the bathroom, especially near the sink and in the medicine cabinet. Whenever you take a shower always leave the drain clogged with your long hair and make sure its all over the soap and shampoo as well.
Find his porno stash and throw it out. Explain he doesn't need it now that you're here. He has a stash, find it. Being the 21st century its probably on the computer (delete the files). Make sure to look through it first and ask him questions like "is that what you want me to look like?"
Change the answering machine message. The more cuddly and cute the message the better.
Always be around, don't give him any privacy, never leave his side, SMOTHER HIM WITH LOVE!
Sounds like yummy copypasta!
May-16-2007 07:42
Sushipunk
Flickering, I roam
Registered: Sep 2006
Location: Chateau Verdafloor
Re: Re: moving in together
quote:
Originally posted by josh4
Yes, first thing you do move in all your stuff. When hes out one day rearrange everything so all your crap is everywhere and its a huge surprise when he comes back. Take down anything you don't like of his put it in a box and put it away in the closet.
Make sure all your girly toiletries take up all the space in the bathroom, especially near the sink and in the medicine cabinet. Whenever you take a shower always leave the drain clogged with your long hair and make sure its all over the soap and shampoo as well.
Find his porno stash and throw it out. Explain he doesn't need it now that you're here. He has a stash, find it. Being the 21st century its probably on the computer (delete the files). Make sure to look through it first and ask him questions like "is that what you want me to look like?"
Change the answering machine message. The more cuddly and cute the message the better.
Always be around, don't give him any privacy, never leave his side, SMOTHER HIM WITH LOVE!
I have to admit I lol'd.
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May-16-2007 07:47
all-nite-freak
Registered: Oct 2005
Location: Moved from death Row to TA Paris Hillton Prison
Re: moving in together
quote:
Originally posted by prolikewhoa
sooo i just moved in with my bf for the summer, and it's the first time i've ever lived w/ a guy.
does anyone have any advice, horror stories, words of wisdom, etc?
, Pro
don't send teh lettar
May-16-2007 07:48
squirrelly
The Phun Nun
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: In the Shower
oh yay!!!!!
how cute
My bf & I have been living together a year and we're moving into our new condo in three days
advice? Don't freak out too much when you realize how gross he really is. he IS a boy... remember that ahhahaha.
No but really...
Make sure you find "you" time. Being up each others ass' is nice for the first few days, and then you just get hissy and start the fighting. Give each other space. If you have to, divide up a section of the house. My bf has a "music room" in the house so he doesn't drive me up the wall Help each other with chores so one doesn't get to feeling like they're being walked all over. DO NOT redecorate with him not knowing. Pick out stuff together.
I don't know what other advice to give. I love living with my bf, I'm sure you will too It's been an amazing past year.
May-16-2007 13:59
Moral Hazard
Oppressing the 99%
Registered: Mar 2005
Location: with the 1%
whatever you do... DO NOT LEAVE THE DOOR OPEN WHEN YOU PEE.... once that happens the romance is gone.
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quote:
Originally posted by RickyM
you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.
quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down
May-16-2007 14:01
igottaknow
PerfectTeeth R4 Dinosaurs
Registered: Feb 2001
Location: The Future
Men like women who know whats best for us. So, don't let him use the remote control and don't hesitate to tell him what he should eat or what he should wear.
May-16-2007 14:09
chach
muppets
Registered: Mar 2005
Location: babie
it wont work out your living in sin!
May-16-2007 14:10
Lilith
Meowsies!
Registered: Nov 2000
Location: Maximum Security twilight home for cats
Re: moving in together
quote:
Originally posted by prolikewhoa
does anyone have any advice
Once the honeymoon period is over, where you don't mind each other, learn to diplomatically avoid them when you need time alone. Domesticate them early, don't take any crap, start praying if it's his first time out of the family home.
quote:
horror stories
lots...
quote:
words of wisdom, etc?
...anything from this point on would be hypocritical of me!
, Pro 
Help each other with chores so one doesn't get to feeling like they're being walked all over. DO NOT redecorate with him not knowing. Pick out stuff together. 
