Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Kitchener, Ont, Soviet Canuckistan
quote:
Originally posted by Zentac_75
I also agree that maternity leave is vital to the babies development as it has missed out on the bonding that happens with its natural mother while still in the womb.
Well, since the baby doesn't 'feel' the bond while in a woman's womb, so the maternity would be just for the mom's benefit?
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Jun-28-2007 20:33
Zentac_75
At least I'm housebroken
Registered: Mar 2007
Location: Burlington, Ontario
During the surrogate pregnancy, the child is bonding with the rent - a-womb, her habits, her voice, her diet etc. Then once born, the baby has to re-bond with the natural (but new) mother.
The comfort of a mother's voice is not as effective if the baby has never heard the mother's voice before.
It's all a rich tapestry I'm sure. ANYway, cudos to people with the financial means to raise a child getting one, and cudos to the woman who have fertile wombs putting them to good use.
Aside from how odd it may seem, I think surrogate mothers are a great idea. Though I acknowledge I am grossly unaware of the psychological effects this may have on the woman/children involved.
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Jun-28-2007 20:41
Yohan
Champion of Deep&Nu-disco
Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Kitchener, Ont, Soviet Canuckistan
Well, does it really matter when parenthood is more of a 'conditioning' than biological?
I've seen adopted kids have way better parents than biological ones, if you understand what I'm trying to get at
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not true. i say "ugh"
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Originally posted by kotsy
lol colour me retarded
Jun-28-2007 20:47
Jem_hadar
I remember...
Registered: Nov 2003
Location: Pandora (South of Nowhere)
quote:
Originally posted by rabbitjoker
Fathers take PATERNITY leave.
Oh yeah.
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Jun-28-2007 21:04
Zentac_75
At least I'm housebroken
Registered: Mar 2007
Location: Burlington, Ontario
quote:
Originally posted by EvilTree
Well, does it really matter when parenthood is more of a 'conditioning' than biological?
I've seen adopted kids have way better parents than biological ones, if you understand what I'm trying to get at
I absolutely do. That's why I am all for surrogate mothers. Let the people with the financial means and honest desire to raise children get them.
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Jun-29-2007 03:39
soupastah
tourist
Registered: Jun 2006
Location: london
there's really such thing as paternity leave??
i'm looking for a wife tomorrow, and a surrogate mother the day after
Jun-30-2007 01:07
FunkyCrew
Ukranian Import
Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Soul Shakin'
quote:
Originally posted by Zentac_75
Let the people with the financial means and honest desire to raise children get them.
absolutely
I would also like to point out that the sex of both parents seeking surrogate mother shouldn't be an issue too
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