A decision can only be labeled 'right' or 'wrong' if you confine the action/reaction to a speicfic period.

If at the end of the day, one evaluates each decision and coinciding result that occurd that day, one may feel they were right or wrong.

However there are those who believe evaluating decisions over a lifetime is more appropriate. Then it is much more difficult to accurately determine whether the 'right' or 'wrong decision was made.

Furthermore, can one believe that making the 'wrong' thing to do if it results positive result ???

ie. I got drunk, was not allowed to board a flight....lost my ticket and vacation etc.... but the plane crashed and now I'm alive.

I made the wrong decision...why??? because maybe I have a drinking problem...or maybe I made the decision or self-preservation without consciously knowing about it.

I have often asked myself "why am I making this choice" because I feel that it is the wrong one.
Is it because I want to complicate my life ?
Is it a pattern I am unable to break ?
Or does it not matter what decision I make, because regardless of what I do I will feel it is the wrong decision ?

Am I a pesimist for thinking I made the wrong choices ???
Of am I an optimist for hoping that these decisions may still yield positive results in the future?

hmmmm....thought provoking thread.

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Originally posted by shanny Look at Newman. He was eaten in his car while deciding which way the dock was, poor bastard.

lol

Good thread Shanny, it made me think.

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Originally posted by jon jon ps. take risks

+1

Even if it doesn't work out for you.

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Originally posted by chinamon not true. i say "ugh" but i am a tranny.

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Originally posted by kotsy lol colour me retarded

okay there david.

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Originally posted by shanny So I ask all of you, when you come to a fork in the road and need to make that decision, ask yourself, "Is this the wrong decision?" Then ask yourself, "why am I making this wrong decision?"

(I wanted to address this issue very briefly b/c I studied it intensely last year in a few of my philosophy courses)

If anyone is seriously interested in looking at the question of whether one can choose to make the 'wrong' decision while knowing it to be wrong (as Shanny's statements seem to suggest) then I suggest you read 1) Plato's Gorgias where the claim that everybody seeks their own good ("it’s for the sake of what’s good that those who do all...things do them") is investigated, 2) Plato's Protagoras where the assertion that nobody does wrong willingly ("Now, no one goes wrong willingly toward the bad or what he believes to be bad; neither is it in human nature, so it seems, to want to go toward what one believes to be bad instead of the good") is examined, 3) Plato's Republic (chpt 4) where the case of Leontius is provided as supposed evidence for the claim that one can indeed do what one believes one ought not to, and (most of all) 4) Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics (Book VII) which features what is likely the most in-depth analysis of this issue that has ever been provided.


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Using the same fork in the road scenario -- often, you'll reflect on your past choices based on where you are at NOW - therein lies the assumption that had you made an alternate choice you would be 'better off' than you are NOW.

Ok, now, think back when you made the original choice - you likely weighed your options and chose the one that made sense at the time. So, why assume now that the other option(s) would have been better for you NOW? The factors/experiences you gained from your original choice have placed you in a different mindset than where you were when first presented with the fork scenario.

So, rather than re-evaluating past decisions - focus instead on your current situation and the 'forks' that lie ahead and where you predict those to lead.

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Originally posted by Abercrombie I trust my insights.

agreed!

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Originally posted by Swamper Using the same fork in the road scenario -- often, you'll reflect on your past choices based on where you are at NOW - therein lies the assumption that had you made an alternate choice you would be 'better off' than you are NOW. Ok, now, think back when you made the original choice - you likely weighed your options and chose the one that made sense at the time. So, why assume now that the other option(s) would have been better for you NOW? The factors/experiences you gained from your original choice have placed you in a different mindset than where you were when first presented with the fork scenario. So, rather than re-evaluating past decisions - focus instead on your current situation and the 'forks' that lie ahead and where you predict those to lead.

I see what your point is and it is a good one...

My original intention was to in fact make the right decision at the moment when it needs to be made, then to not need to worry about it later.

There is all kinds or potential problems with this theory because it involves looking into the past, whether you think the decision was right or wrong, and there is of course no way to know which one was better for certain for the exact reasons you have just discussed.

What I was trying to get at was live with no regrets.

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