I have this situation. My family lives in NY and I live in Australia; I was the one who left. I hate saying goodbye and I don't know when this living situation will change.

England and France are pretty close...

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Originally posted by [N]ûk|êû[Z] i have just seen my mum for the last time in god knows how long.. as tomorrow she is leaving to go live in france. everything was nice with relatives until i had to leave.. and hugged my mum and said good bye, then she starts crying and stuff.. which was horrible, as now im not sure what i feel like.. yeah sure ill see her again, but i just feel a bit like i should be crying, but im not. and the fact that she is going away to live in another country with a bastard that used to beat me, and if anything happens like a big argument, i wont be there staraight away to deck the bastard, makes me feel wierd. im not sure what to think or feel. has anyone else ever felt this like or had a simliar situation?

i know i am in the same boat as you my mom is in vancouver with that bastard and i moved to toronto recently because of my job. Dont worry god is just testing us, in due time with patience and diligence everything will work out!

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Originally posted by KilldaDJ from reading the title, it could be worse.

exactly, i thought she was dying or something.

wtf, you can't call her?

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Originally posted by tubularbills exactly, i thought she was dying or something. wtf, you can't call her?

He can't protect his mum from being violently hurt over the phone.

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look on the bright side, she's leaving.

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Originally posted by [N]ûk|êû[Z] i have just seen my mum for the last time in god knows how long.. as tomorrow she is leaving to go live in france. everything was nice with relatives until i had to leave.. and hugged my mum and said good bye, then she starts crying and stuff.. which was horrible, as now im not sure what i feel like.. yeah sure ill see her again, but i just feel a bit like i should be crying, but im not. and the fact that she is going away to live in another country with a bastard that used to beat me, and if anything happens like a big argument, i wont be there staraight away to deck the bastard, makes me feel wierd. im not sure what to think or feel. has anyone else ever felt this like or had a simliar situation?

Been there mate. When I moved to US, I didn't get to see my mum and dad for one and half years. That was in December 2005. Haven't seen them ever since and probably won't see them again until Dec 2008. Makes me feel like a sad panda sometimes

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Originally posted by twilightki : It feels like something you'd listen to at 4 in the morning, or listen to in your car while you're going in a tunnel.

i wish my father would leave his c/unt wife (shes my birth mother too). stupid bitch needs to be beaten so that she has no common sense. at least then shed have a reason to do the things she does.

and although i feel that way about my fathers wife, i havent seen any of my immediate family with the exception of 1 of the 6 sisters i have in 5 years. because of this i hate the holidays. i cant stand them. i hope for the best in your situation but i totally understand how you feel.

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Originally posted by gehzumteufel i wish my father would leave his c/unt wife (shes my birth mother too). stupid bitch needs to be beaten so that she has no common sense.

so that's ur mum right ?

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Originally posted by twilightki : It feels like something you'd listen to at 4 in the morning, or listen to in your car while you're going in a tunnel.

Look on the brightside. Nothing as cool as jumping in a plane fed up with things to visit mom unannounced. Travelling doesn't cost much these days.

I'm flying a 3000 km's distance after 4 weeks for 135 euro's.

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Originally posted by Omega_M so that's ur mum right ?

unfortunately