guess i should have been a bit more specific.. there were no hurtful words. i took it with grace and dignity. I told him i would take rowan to my parents house and we would stay here and he could be alone in the house. When i was leaving, he went to kiss me, i pushed him away and told him "you can't make anyone happy until you are happy yourself" and i turned around and left. He's ruining his life, but i can't let him ruin ours. i will handle it with as much reason and respect as i can. i have alot of support from my family.

Pwn!

fuck.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN dont argue with the yanks nutter, they know best!

What a fucking prick. I'm so sorry this happened sweetie

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Originally posted by AustralianGQ im a failure with females...i will be the real 40 year old virgin i guarentee you

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Originally posted by wienerschnitzel guess i should have been a bit more specific.. there were no hurtful words. i took it with grace and dignity. I told him i would take rowan to my parents house and we would stay here and he could be alone in the house. When i was leaving, he went to kiss me, i pushed him away and told him "you can't make anyone happy until you are happy yourself" and i turned around and left. He's ruining his life, but i can't let him ruin ours. i will handle it with as much reason and respect as i can. i have alot of support from my family.

Nicely done. I wouldn't have been anywhere near as polite, so I have a lot of respect for you for that

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Originally posted by Sushipunk Nicely done. I wouldn't have been anywhere near as polite, so I have a lot of respect for you for that

plus 1. im sure my shock-anger would have gotten the best of me.

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Originally posted by jonSun plus 1. im sure my shock-anger would have gotten the best of me.

women tend to handle it a lot better. my ma kind of did the same thing.

best of luck meghan

Unless he is on his knees begging for forgiveness from you [which it doesn't sound like that's the case], I suggest you get a lawyer right and fast.

He doesn't deserve your respect one bit, though it is graceful of you to grant it to him regardless. I'm not saying you should have every intent of ruining his life at this point, but take care to secure both your child and your way of life, if need be.

I am really sorry to hear this happen to someone who seems so great.

I don't know you as well as I wish I did, but you seem to be a dedicated wife and a fantastic mother. Nothing in life is ensured, even to the most deserving.

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i'm sorry to hear this. i hope the best for you and your child.

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Originally posted by lucid pro tip: if you value your life, NEVER do anything that will place you "outside" of the jonze circle of trust.

dude that guy angers me so much. he totally took advantage of you in every way. he used u to fuckin procreate. thats fuckin disgusting. i wanna bash ppl in the head like this. treat a girl anyway u want while ur bf/gf (accept dont be abusive) cheat on them, kiss other chicks whatever. but once u put a ring on that finger that means no more. that means this is ur partner in life. and as a partner only then can u be abusive but u cant cheat anymore. and u deffinaely can't use ur partner


edit: sorry weiner i realizeim drunk and what im typing makes no sense and offers no solution or support. ill write something else tommorrow

you have taken this extremely well, cant even imagine the emotions you are going through right now, ending a r'ship is one thing but a marriage would magnify those feelings ten fold.