She thinks you'll always be there because her time is more valuable than yours and as such you're her free ticket out each and every time.
Either walk away and see if she comes to you, or set her straight. Whichever way if this isn't adressed it's bound to self destruct.
One day you may very well blow up and throw in her face all these things you've been dying to tell her for years but she won't understand and turn the situation around as if you were the one at fault.
If you stay silent in this regard you are only agreeing for it to continue as if it wasn't troubling you in the least bit.
May-21-2008 16:01
Capo di tutti
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Apr 2008
Location: Toronto, Ontario
quote:
Originally posted by chach
It's because you have kids.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
May-21-2008 16:03
whiskers
old skool
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
quote:
Originally posted by jdat
She thinks you'll always be there because her time is more valuable than yours and as such you're her free ticket out each and every time.
Either walk away and see if she comes to you, or set her straight. Whichever way if this isn't adressed it's bound to self destruct.
One day you may very well blow up and throw in her face all these things you've been dying to tell her for years but she won't understand and turn the situation around as if you were the one at fault.
If you stay silent in this regard you are only agreeing for it to continue as if it wasn't troubling you in the least bit.
This, a hundred thousand million times. COR version of the solution: be more selfish.
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May-21-2008 16:39
stace
Harder...Faster...
Registered: Apr 2004
Location: Surrey - fa fa fa
Screw that. Im not ditching any of my plans for the guy Im kind of seeing at the moment. I've only just made some wicked friends and started to have some amazing weekends, there is no way any silly boy is getting in the way of that.
Roll on SONAR with the girls.
I have one friend like that though and its infuriating. Fairweather friends FTL!
May-21-2008 19:51
Clovis
techno jungle shit
Registered: Apr 2004
Location: Los Angeles
quote:
Originally posted by stace
Roll on SONAR with the girls.
HOT GIRLS, DRUGS, & TECHNO FOR LIFE
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quote:
Originally posted by ********
Seplling don't demonstrate intelligence and educatoin - knowing does.
May-21-2008 19:57
Silky Johnson
International Playa Hater
Registered: Nov 2003
Location:
quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
HOT GIRLS, DRUGS, & TECHNO FOR LIFE
AND ANGRY SEX!
May-21-2008 19:58
whiskers
old skool
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
HOT GIRLS, DRUGS, & TECHNO FOR LIFE
AND ANGRY SEX!
WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
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May-21-2008 20:01
stace
Harder...Faster...
Registered: Apr 2004
Location: Surrey - fa fa fa
Too fucking right!!!!
May-21-2008 20:02
whiskers
old skool
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
quote:
Originally posted by stace
Too fucking tight!!!!
For great justice!
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May-21-2008 20:04
stace
Harder...Faster...
Registered: Apr 2004
Location: Surrey - fa fa fa
quote:
Originally posted by whiskers
For great justice!
May-21-2008 20:06
hectorc
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Feb 2008
Location: Chicago IL
All beats are off when the friend keeps doing the same things every time they get in a new relationship. Not learning from their mistakes after years of advice is reason enough to drop them.
May-21-2008 20:07
jpisani
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Mar 2003
Location: asdf
Re: Girls ditching their friends for their man
quote:
Originally posted by hotmom714
I have been there for her for over 7 years now
