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pkcRAISTLIN
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Registered: Jul 2002
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Re: The more you get, the more you want
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
[Or..."the cycle of consumption and dissatisfaction."]
So you get a decent job that lets you afford all your necessities -- food, clothing, living space, and so on -- and a few amenities like going out to the movies and music or wherever your interests happen to be. Eventually you accumulate enough stuff that your current living arrangement starts to feel a bit cramped, or maybe you just want a change of scenery.
So you buy or rent a new and bigger place, and move all of your stuff from the old place into the new one. But the stuff you already have starts to bore you, as stuff long owned tends to do, and you decide you need newer and more expensive stuff. You go out and buy some things, and your finances start to feel a bit stretched. But that's no matter, because soon you get a raise at your job. The raise is significant enough that you feel you can afford a bigger place across town.
So you buy that one, and you move all your stuff there. Then you buy some more stuff to fill out the new place. Eventually you have more than you know what to do with, maybe even more than you would have told yourself you wanted, had you considered the question ten years ago when you got that first decent job. But the funny thing is, you look at all the stuff you own now, maybe books that go unread for months or years, more music than you'll ever practically have time to listen to, the car you bought simply because the last one had started to feel a bit shabby -- you look at all this, and you still want a bit more.
At least a few people reading this will probably think, "Ha! I'm not like that! Once I have x, y, and z, I'll be quite content, thank you very much!" If that is actually the case, then you are a rare person indeed. But chances are that if you think that, you are only fooling yourself, because for most people (and I include myself) our "needs" and our "wants" for material goods are part of the same continuum of forces tugging us along the road to ever-greater consumption in spite of any stories we would like to tell ourselves about how we'd be content if only x, y, and z would happen to us.
I'm not saying that there's necessarily anything wrong with this. I find it kind of amusing, the treadmill that almost everybody is on, the cycle of buying something, taking the thing for granted, and then finally giving in and buying a new thing when the old one has shed too much of its original lustre, only to repeat the process again. |
Im too much of a jew to go through life like that. I buy new stuff when I honestly need it. I wear my clothes til they die, and I drive my cars into the ground. Im a fan of spending money on stuff that has a qualitative advantage, ie a video card that runs better, or a television that has a higher resolution etc. fuck just buying stuff coz your old stuff is "boring".
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Arbiter
Naked Power Organ

Registered: May 2002
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Re: Re: The more you get, the more you want
| quote: | Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
Im too much of a jew to go through life like that. I buy new stuff when I honestly need it. I wear my clothes til they die, and I drive my cars into the ground. |
Haha, I'm the same. Although I don't own a car anymore thankfully. What annoys me is how crappy most products are these days. For some kinds of purchases I've had much more success buying older things on the cheap and fixing them up. They tend to last, whereas new products usually have terrible craftsmanship and need to be replaced after a couple of years anyway.
My office chair, for example, was manufactured 1976. It's not in great condition right now, but I am going to get it refurbished rather than buy a new one. It's so well-built that I know I can expect it to last another 32 years after that. If I bought new, I couldn't get that kind of quality these days, even if I paid a premium. There might be some quality manufacturer out there somewhere, but I sure as hell can't find them. Even if I could, I know I'd end up paying more than it will take to fix this old one which will do the job just as well. And that would be dumb.
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May-23-2008 00:44
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Lilith
Meowsies!

Registered: Nov 2000
Location: Maximum Security twilight home for cats
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Re: The more you get, the more you want
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
At least a few people reading this will probably think, "Ha! I'm not like that! Once I have x, y, and z, I'll be quite content, thank you very much!" If that is actually the case, then you are a rare person indeed. But chances are that if you think that, you are only fooling yourself, because for most people (and I include myself) our "needs" and our "wants" for material goods are part of the same continuum of forces tugging us along the road to ever-greater consumption in spite of any stories we would like to tell ourselves about how we'd be content if only x, y, and z would happen to us. |
Plenty of people do that and still end up on a treadmill of incoming and outgoing money never ending up where they want it for one simple reason.
Most people really aren't as clever as they kid themselves to be
Because they never factor in conflict, disaster or simply things going to hell in a handbasket while they're at their weakest and often forget that life is severely unfair.
They make that 3 step plan of obtaining and even if they do manage through dumb luck or management, very few will ever factor in a multiple of worst possible scenarios which will let them actually keep what they obtain.
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May-23-2008 07:06
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LionsLair
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Location: Los Angeles
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