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Originally posted by Nostalgic So I graduated from university last year, moved and work back home where I've lived for 15 years, hang out with the same junior high schoo/high school people who are pretty cliquey and aren't interested in really meeting anybody else. Right now I'm kinda bored with same people over and over, but I'm just finding it hard making new friends...I dunno. Work isn't really an option, all my coworkers are married have kids etc, tried taking random classes, just hasn't worked out. Anybody else have this same problem?

Humans are a tribal species, and in an age where everyone lives in close proximity to everyone else, this tribal tendency manifests itself in "cliques." You're friends are uncomfortable with associating with members of other "tribes". Your tribe seems to not be meeting your social needs. Play a sport or something.

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Originally posted by lücid adultfriendfinder.com worked for me.

Did you really meet people through there? Please share..

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Originally posted by Krypton Humans are a tribal species, and in an age where everyone lives in close proximity to everyone else, this tribal tendency manifests itself in "cliques." You're friends are uncomfortable with associating with members of other "tribes". Your tribe seems to not be meeting your social needs. Play a sport or something.

actually, egoic behavior is what causes cliques and opposing groups.

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Try meetups.com and find people who share your interests. Join a pick-up soccer or frisbee game... make a friend on a team, then make friends with their friends. You just gotta be really open about it. If it works, it works, if it doesn't, it doesn't, move on.

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Originally posted by lücid adultfriendfinder.com worked for me.

lulz

Making friends is easy. Its finding people you actually want to be friends with thats the hard part. Or maybe that’s just me coz im a cvnt.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN Making friends is easy. Its finding people you actually want to be friends with thats the hard part. Or maybe that’s just me coz im a cvnt.

I can relate to that, actually, and I don't think I'm a Kant.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN Making friends is easy. Its finding people you actually want to be friends with thats the hard part. Or maybe that�s just me coz im a cvnt.

ah ha sooooooo true

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Originally posted by Ygrene I once saw Swamper peel off 4 or 5 $100 bills from a fat roll and say this to Donald Trump: "Go clean yourself up; you look like a bum.". And then he threw the bills right in Trump's face/hair! Then Swamper and his entourage of 30, who were all wearing TA monogramed Rolexes, left the room and flew to Hawaii for a few hours because Del wanted fresh coconut. To his defense, Trump didn't even really look like a bum.

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Originally posted by chrisday Join a team?... Easiest way to meet people. Go to the gym you will meet people there.

Yes.

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Originally posted by chimera66 seriously join groups of things you like...join an adult kickball league like one of my friends did or do happy hour with people at work. there might be people in other departments who are young and fun.

Correct.

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Originally posted by whiskers Try meetups.com and find people who share your interests. Join a pick-up soccer or frisbee game... make a friend on a team, then make friends with their friends. You just gotta be really open about it. If it works, it works, if it doesn't, it doesn't, move on.

*nods*


yeah what all three of these posters said. Some sort of extracurricular recreational sport is the ticket. Join an indoor soccer league or dodgeball, kickball, basketball, handball, volleyball, rock climbing, etc...

Not only will you meet cool new people, you'll have fun and stay in shape (somewhat).

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Originally posted by sweds00 Roadside rest areas are a good place to start

have you given Greco-Roman wrestling a try?